[Serious] anyone have a license to carry firearm (or CCL as called in some states) in their state of residence but also carries in a neighboring state without that states license to carry?

I live in PA where I have my license to carry firearms  (LTCF). Occasionally I visit NJ for sports or to shop at the malls. It's become increasingly difficult to want to go to NJ anymore without my firearm. I'm a system concealed carrier so I carry everywhere I legally can in PA. As most of us know, it's practically impossible to get a carry permit in NJ.I understand that "concealed is concealed" and "better to be judged by 12 than carried by 6". But, 1, knowingly breaking the law isn't something I'm comfortable with mainly because idk if I'd ever be able to legally carry again if caught. 2, my wife would know that I carry to NJ because I wouldn't (and couldn't) hide that from her. So in essence, I'm showing someone that I'm breaking the law therefore invalidating any argument i make in the future about guns (e.g. guns are only bad it in the hands of criminals). I don't like being a hypocrite. I can't say that I'm a law abiding citizen if I'm  carrying in a state that I'm not licensed to do so.Any insight from fellow firearm carriers is very appreciated. Thanks. via /r/CCW http://ift.tt/29X0Mwv