Full Nelson Escape - Self Defense

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Submitted August 3, 2026 at 10:43PM by Ok-Welcome-8818 https://ift.tt/xVpu1Lf

Best thing to stop an attacker?

I plan on carrying pepper spray no matter what but I also would like something else to to compliment it.

My focus is protecting my 2 toddler brothers when I take them outside if needed, running is not a good option because they arent fast enough so my best bet is atleast putting up a good enough fight if not winning it for their sake.

My first thought is a extendable baton since its impact can easily incapitate legs/arms/hands. But i also am skeptical because extending it will cost time in the interaction but id like to hear your suggestions and comments

Submitted August 1, 2026 at 06:14AM by iammoordi https://ift.tt/e1XfVDj

POM vs. SABRE Red?

My SABRE Pepper Gel expired, so I'm looking for a replacement to keep in my car.

I want the most effective option possible—something that can stop an attacker as quickly as possible. From what I've read, a spray/stream seems like a better choice than gel, but I'm open to hearing otherwise.

Is POM actually better than SABRE Red, or is it mostly marketing? If POM is the better pick, which version would you recommend?

Submitted July 30, 2026 at 10:15PM by Original_Row_6269 https://ift.tt/jvrbiCn

Silat effectiveness outside of the gym?

I studied Silat for a number of months only and while it was fun I was skeptical of effectiveness of a lot of the drills. I am curious on what others think of this art?

In BJJ even a child can quickly perform a takedown on me if I stand still and let it happen. Then thats only the beginning.

In Silat if a student was shorter or weighed less than me they would really struggle to pull a move off even if I stood still and let them step, push, pull and do whatever to manipulate my balance while I held in place.... then the drill would end after the move was performed.

Submitted July 30, 2026 at 04:45PM by BellInternational315 https://ift.tt/EMTAi1v

The decision logic behind jamming vs. angling off a straight punch

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Submitted July 30, 2026 at 01:52AM by Wangsmartialarts https://ift.tt/3BkaS4H

New Self Defense Book

Has anyone read Timeline of Self Defense by
King? I just got it and it is really diffrent… Not sure my opinion yet! It is a fun read. But very different from other books I have looked at. Just curious if anyone else has read it?

Submitted July 24, 2026 at 10:29PM by kunalavast https://ift.tt/sjqvMNW

Evade threats on streets - what’s the best way?

Faced a guy walking towards me and started shouting at around 50m distance. He moved his arm. I quickly scanned him and didn’t think he was a danger, more deranged, so I walked past him calmly.

In case he would have been a danger and I sense I must dash. How do I dash. Walking backwards? Walking on right lane, he’s moving towards me from the left. To my right brick wall. To my left open street.

What is the best option here to remove myself from his attack range?

I appreciate your help.

Submitted July 27, 2026 at 05:05PM by RoughMidnight8303 https://ift.tt/2oTDbFN

My bully keeps stealing my new stuff

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Submitted July 27, 2026 at 04:48AM by Eyekonickai https://ift.tt/Ujadfm2

Joined a self defence class and it starts Wednesday.

I’m a male. The class I joined teaches a variety of martial arts styles, such as Karate, Taekwondo, Krav Maga, BJJ, Judo and some Boxing.

What should I expect ? I’m an introvert so I’m a little nervous about meeting a bunch of new people. I don’t imagine we will have to talk much lol. The classes are one hour long.

Submitted July 26, 2026 at 11:20PM by JQuick72 https://ift.tt/Qbpse5X

Shield-and-counter drill — one beat vs. two beats

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Submitted July 25, 2026 at 11:53PM by Wangsmartialarts https://ift.tt/dvku0cC

could you contract HIV from biting a attacker if you draw blood

if you had to bite someone what is the risk of you getting a infection

Submitted May 4, 2026 at 02:30PM by Royal_Category_2628 https://ift.tt/yi6bH9V

What is the easiest martial art to learn at home?

I understand that things such as sparring are important but what is the simplest martial art to learn at home at least to some extent via shadow boxing, muscular training (push-ups, squats, etc).

Submitted July 23, 2026 at 08:02AM by Designer-Photo-8840 https://ift.tt/2jaJX6H

Based on these stats, how capable would I be in a fight?

Statistically, what do you think my chances are in an average one-on-one physical fight against a random man?
For context, I’m 5’7” and around 180 pounds, sometimes up to 185. My best mile is about 5:45. I’ve boxed for about 7 years, have a purple belt in Brazilian jiu-jitsu, and I’ve been active in sports and fitness most of my life.
How would you rate my overall “character build” or archetype in terms of fighting ability? Against the average adult man, what percentage of fights would you realistically expect me to win? And how would those odds change against different sizes and builds?

Submitted July 23, 2026 at 12:34AM by Obvious-Produce-9566 https://ift.tt/WnIG4i2

Can hit in the head in defense end in unintentional fatal outcome?

I couldn't add more characters in the title, so that is how I decided to write it – I am aware it is possible.

So hypothetically, if I get in a situation where I have to defend, myself or somebody else, and if the circumstances are so in which I decide to hit the person in the head (as people do in fights, which I hope I never run into, but hope is not enough), thinking about it, it worries me, what if the hit I do is fatal? That would definitely not be an intended outcome, but every other consideration seems illogical for one's own survival in a moment that it's endangered. Should I, in a life threatening situation, think on how hard should I hit an attacker, gauging the risk of it being fatal in such intense situation (with even then the risk existing)?

Also, this is my first time on this subreddit, while I can surely imagine other mitigations that are better, you can't expect an average person to possess such agility, coordination, knowledge and practice to be able to neutralize threat with no risk of causing more than harm as a by-product than an experienced professional. Most people would have to rely on their physical defense insticts, rather than face possibly fatal consequences themselves – it could even be the only theoretical defense as well (if fight is already initiated and you are hurt already, and you don't happen to have a black belt to professionally incapacitate a person, which raises a question - should you always resort to hitting less vital areas?)

I tried my best to not make this sound concerning, but be assured that this is just that one impulsive adrenaline inducing random thought that keeps me awake at night, a what-if scenario, and I can't get over what if my action of defense could cause them to die.

Submitted July 22, 2026 at 10:53PM by Icy-Routine-6933 https://ift.tt/dnO0kMJ

You dont need that

When people get in your face and demand to know why you have a small pocket knife clip to your pants.

Or my personal favorite, why do you need that gun? What do you think is going to happen?

Submitted July 21, 2026 at 12:09PM by Delicious_Move7472 https://ift.tt/cICbysA

Dude wanted to fight me over a seat yesterday and i argued out of it.

So i went to see the Odyssey yesterday and got into an argument with someone over the seat. My ticket did not specify the row but it was seat 11 and i can tell you for a fact it was one row behind the VIP section. I ended up raising my voice and he left me alone in the seat. Afterwards this dude comes uncomfortably close to me and tells me that we should take things outside. I just keep doing what i was doing and told him "what do you want''. I told him i would call the cops because i didn't like the look on his face. This dude was super shifty and kept reaching into his hand bag. I told him that if he had a gun then it really wasn't worth my life and that i apologize. I was worried about a gun or a knife and my adrenaline surged. My hands were literally shaking slightly. I showed him my ticket and he basically argued with me saying ''it wasn't fair what i did to him''. At one point he jerked his arm subtly but did not do anything. I followed behind him outside and thought about striking him to the base of the skull or using an RNC to deter him but he ended up waving goodbye and leaving. He also asked me whether i liked the movie. I have no idea what the fuck was going through this guy's head. His body language was very mixed. He even showed me his bag to reassure me. I think my confidence and unwillingness to move at his commands probably made him feel that a fight would be more complicated than just a sucker punch. Anyway, i'm glad it didn't escalate to something that could result in either of us getting hurt or legal involvement.

I suppose my question is what would you have done and what if the dude ended up sucker punching me? What would be the appropriate response.

Submitted July 21, 2026 at 01:11AM by Designer-Photo-8840 https://ift.tt/acjsKBJ

Byrna Non-Lethal

I’m considering getting my girlfriend one of the Byrna Non-lethal products for her birthday. Reason being is that we move a lot and that can get complicated with traditional methods. I also don’t think she’d be able to use a real one if she needed to.

Does anyone have any experience with these products? Is it a viable self-defense tool?

Submitted July 20, 2026 at 08:42PM by Matt_S_Fox30 https://ift.tt/FSOou78

Built a silent, automated safety app for Garmin. Let’s discuss logic.

Hey everyone.

As someone with a background in military reconnaissance and sniper instruction, I’ve spent years analyzing threat models. When I'm away, my biggest worry is the safety of my wife (who works late hours) and my teenage daughter.

I looked at standard civilian solutions like Apple "Find My" or Garmin LiveTrack, and from a self-defense perspective, they have a massive, fatal flaw: they are entirely passive. If an attacker suddenly knocks the phone out of your hand, breaks it, or turns it off, the map simply freezes at the last known location. Nobody at home realizes anything is wrong until hours later when you fail to show up. In a real emergency, you don't have time to open an app, swipe a screen, and press an "SOS" button.

I wanted a system that flips the logic: instead of shouting "I'm in danger," it silently checks in to say "I'm okay." If it goes silent, the system acts automatically. Since we all wear smartwatches, I built a custom tool for Garmin watches that functions as a silent, automated check-in.

Here is the tactical logic I implemented:

The Server-Side Timer: When activated, a countdown runs on an independent server, not just the device.

Silent Check-ins: Every 30 seconds, the watch sends a silent background ping. If you don't manually reset the main timer before it hits zero, the watch gives you a quiet vibration warning ("Hey, you okay?").

Automated Alert: If you don't respond to the vibration within 30 seconds, the server automatically fires an emergency SOS to a private Telegram group with the exact last coordinates, map link, and heart rate data.

The "Silent Phone" Trigger: If the phone gets destroyed, turned off, or loses cellular connection for more than 90 seconds, the server recognizes the drop in communication and automatically triggers the alarm anyway.

Biometric Triggers: It automatically triggers if the heart rate drops dangerously low or spikes above 140 BPM while the user is completely stationary (panic/struggle response).

We’ve been family-testing this for 4 months, and the logic holds up. It gives peace of mind without requiring them to constantly stare at their phones or draw attention to themselves in a dark alley.

I’m sharing this because I want to get the community's perspective on this approach.

From a self-defense standpoint, what flaws do you see in a "Dead Man's Switch" approach for civilians? If you were designing an automated system like this, what other triggers or fail-safes would you include (e.g., automated ambient audio recording)? Let's discuss.

Submitted July 19, 2026 at 09:46AM by Negative_Boot7698 https://ift.tt/OowNpht

I went to my first ever self defense class and I got scared and left

When I signed up, the class teacher and I texted back and forth, and he said I was welcome to come to the first few classes for free. He said that it was self defense and a mix of martial arts. I told him I’d love to join, but that I am shy (I’m extremely afraid of a man attacking me and hurting me. My dad used to always scream at me, and at times my dad said I made him want to hit me, and that I had made him regret ever becoming a father. I’ve been harassed and touched and grabbed at every job I’ve ever had. I’m just scared and I wanted a class where I could learn some moves and believe I’m not helpless)

I told the trainer that I may need to just watch at some parts, and I asked if that would be okay. (I can’t have a stranger full on attacking me yet. It scares me and I don’t know this teacher.)

He said yes through text, and that it wouldn’t be a problem at all.

My boyfriend was very proud that I built up the courage to attend self defense because he knows I’m afraid of men harming me because of all the ways I get harassed regularly.

When I got there, one side of the dojo had some people who were laughing and wrestling. One of them was on top of the other, and I thought “okay. That looks scary, but he won’t make me do that on my first try.”

While he and I talked, I nervously gestured to girl who was being straddled and pinned down to the ground pretty aggressively. “Okay I don’t think I can do that haha” I said. He looked at me kind of annoyed, and said that a man may put me in that position one day and it will be too late for me to defend myself if I don’t learn.

My boyfriend has worked with me about my fears of being raped or harmed by men, and has told me that I will not ever get assaulted, and he has worked hard to earn my trust. Hearing this random new man tell me that men will very likely try to straddle me and pin me down was really jarring and it made me rethink everything my boyfriend told me.

I really thought I would go in there and come out with some confidence, but the teacher started talking about how someone might start choking me against the wall one day and “what are you going to do?”.

It scared me so bad that this man I’ve never met was describing all the ways I was vulnerable.

I said “I was thinking I could work up to that, but not on my first class. Maybe I could watch that part. I just can’t have someone like, choking me”.

He talked at one point about how I might get strangled against a wall (gesturing to one of the walls in his class) and “what are you going to do?” I just got quiet and said “I don’t know” and just kind of looked down. He said “you don’t know” or something like that? And he said I had to learn somehow before it was too late.

I kept saying that maybe I could work up to that, but that I was a beginner and I may need to work up to these things. He kept replying that I had no plan for if someone strangled me or something like that.

Eventually I made an excuse that I needed to just have a private lesson sometime. He said he would call me tomorrow, and I left quickly. I don’t want to talk to him ever again.

I got in my car and didn’t expect to start crying.

My eyes got all watery and I realized how much I had dreamed of coming to that dojo. I had imagined where my parking space would be every week, how I would make lots of friends there, over future years of attending and training, how I would learn to be strong and not helpless and scared all the time. I had dreamed that I could build up my confidence there, and keep trying and training, and pick up self defense or kick boxing as a hobby. I didn’t realize that I had so many hopes of this place teaching me how to push away men at work who want to touch me (one of them did today at work, and then laughed at my startled expression).

I’m scared, and I thought I had found some light in the dark but I’m just still scared and I feel extremely defeated and vulnerable again.

I don’t even want to tell my boyfriend I failed because he was so excited to see how excited I was to find a place where I could build my confidence up, over the next few years.

Submitted July 17, 2026 at 08:14PM by Dangerous_Matter_208 https://ift.tt/TWRQnY5

[Beginner] Planning my self-defense journey: Need tips on what to do

Quick note: Hey everyone, just a quick heads-up: I used an AI assistant to help me write and translate this post because my English isn't very good (or at least, I don't feel super confident with it yet). I wanted to make sure my ideas and questions came across clearly without any misunderstandings. Thanks for your patience and understanding! Greeting from Brazil!!!

Hi everyone!

I am currently planning to start my self-defense journey. However, I have a very clear philosophy: for me, violence is strictly the absolute last resort. My primary goal is to learn how to defend myself and others (family, friends, or vulnerable people) while prioritizing control and the safety of everyone involved, without resorting to active physical aggression unless it is 100% necessary.

As I am building my training schedule and theoretical study plan, I would love to get your advice on a few specific questions. Any guidance or tips you can share to help point me in the right direction would be highly appreciated!

1. What are the "passive" and control techniques called?

Since I plan on hiring instructors for the physical, active side of training (like Boxing and Jiu-Jitsu), I want to dedicate my solo study time to the mental and strategic aspects.

• What are the technical names for passive defense methodologies and concepts? (I know terms like Situational Awareness, but what other concepts or frameworks should I look up?)
• Which books or manuals do you recommend for studying these passive techniques, tactical communication, verbal de-escalation, and the psychology of combat/violence?

2. Standards of Evolution: How to measure progress?

In bodybuilding, you have very clear, objective standards to measure your evolution (e.g., muscle mass, definition, body fat percentage, or how much weight you can lift on the bench press).

• What are the equivalent "standards" or benchmarks in martial arts and self-defense?
• What concrete physical, technical, or mental milestones can I use to track my evolution and know I am actually getting better? (For example, is it based on sparring performance against resisting opponents, reaction time or specific physical fitness metrics?)

3. Training Time, Proficiency, and the 5-Year Plan

I am mapping out a medium-to-long-term plan for my physical and technical development.

• On average, how long does it take to become genuinely proficient in Boxing or Jiu-Jitsu (JJ)?
• Is a 5-year horizon of consistent training enough to reach a level of proficiency where I can realistically rely on it in a high-stress street situation?
• Beyond sports-centric belt ranks, what parameters define someone as being "street-ready" or "good" at actual self-defense?

4. Training Routine and Hiring

I want to take this very seriously and invest maximum effort into it.

• Who exactly should I hire? Should I look for a personal trainer with a traditional martial arts background, an urban self-defense instructor (like civilian-focused Krav Maga), or specific individual coaches for Boxing and BJJ?
• Is training 3 times a week sufficient (or sustainable)? I am willing to dedicate myself intensely, but I want to know if this frequency is productive for motor learning or if it will just lead to overtraining and injuries that will set me back.

Thank you in advance to everyone who takes the time to share their experience and help me kick off this journey on the right foot!

Submitted July 17, 2026 at 08:08AM by soumaperguntaman https://ift.tt/wrcyKUM

Chang Sing Training Methodologies

https://youtu.be/lgviEYFZlUU?si=UVAFpTNzZio39Pxp

Submitted July 16, 2026 at 01:13PM by Miao_Yin8964 https://ift.tt/hDzvE3H

What can I do to fight back against people heavier than in school.

So I am 16M 47KG(last time I checked in Feb) and somewhere between 5'7-5'8 in height.

So I am having some people in my school who are always looking up to fight and while some go to gym and do strength training most of them are just heavier than me like 70-80KGs some ever more although they are smaller than me in height like maybe a inch or two.

Main point here is that I might get in a fight with some of them not because I want to buy they like to sort out things with fight and always have that egoistic personality so I want some advice how can I fight back if it takes place as i can't always expect a teacher to be there in situations where a fight can't be avoided sometimes

Submitted July 15, 2026 at 11:00AM by NotMurphyLaw https://ift.tt/eEat5GA

What should I have done when I got headlocked at school?

I'm a highschool student. I've never been in any serious altercations, and I'm mild mannered and don't cause issues with anyone. One day I was sitting at a lucnh table with my friend, and someone came up behind me and put his arm around my neck and lifted me up (headlock). I was trying to pull his arm off me but it didn't work. After a few seconds he released me and I just froze and looked up at him. What should I have done? How can I make sure things like this don't happen at school?

Submitted July 14, 2026 at 12:19PM by BallBig2552 https://ift.tt/MYHayhC

Is holding a lighter in the fist while punching really beneficial?

I came across multiple times people saying that it gives a stronger punch and reduced the risk of self injury. Is that true? And if its true is there any tool thats even better or specific designed for this purpose?

Submitted July 13, 2026 at 10:53AM by Professional-Self-83 https://ift.tt/IiVLfjk

How to keep safe Uber eats on a bike?

Hey, so I started Uber eats on my bike and I'm concerned about it taking me into a rough area. I thought about doing a belt holster of mace, but I'm concerned about the safety coming undone and id accidentally spray myself while riding. Or maybe should I carry a taser?

Submitted July 13, 2026 at 08:36AM by Thin-Fee4423 https://ift.tt/PsAFgyu

I hate when you ___

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Submitted July 13, 2026 at 01:55AM by ditchmaggots https://ift.tt/YLhzXiq

Self-defense classes and or techniques for older newbies

And by older I mean 50+, in decent shape, work out often, but have arm knees and shoulder joints and a back that act their age (ache) often 😝

Where does someone like that start (other than the usual weights and cardio which is already happening).

Would love to know more advanced techniques on self protection against someone who knows how to fight, take down techniques, effective holds, escapes, proper hitting and punching and blocking, anything and everything (and low impact at least for practicing 😝 )

Submitted July 13, 2026 at 12:49AM by TwoFit473 https://ift.tt/LSywfKm

do you yhink you're hot?

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Submitted July 11, 2026 at 03:10AM by thefurryinfinite https://ift.tt/U1mXRG3

When did your gut instinct save you?

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Submitted July 10, 2026 at 10:51PM by omoola_ https://ift.tt/bj0eEm4

Give me ten upvotes please

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Submitted July 10, 2026 at 05:27AM by krikluk https://ift.tt/mJgv5ZV

Situational Awareness

Alright so that is the first advice every reputable person would give you. But how tho?

Those who have it take it for granted, like it is actually hard to turn it off. It comes with practice. I'll do my best to bridge the gap.

Use all your senses. I can't give away all the game because as they say the game is to be sold, not told.

Just be aware. Don't have your nose in a phone, tunnel vision.

Be loose. it makes you more receptive.

That one is free.

Read books like Rory Miller. Peace.

Submitted July 9, 2026 at 06:16AM by random123121 https://ift.tt/FbvyawT

Can a 35 lb dumbbell be used for self defense?

Only object I got in my house that I think could do some serious damage is that dumbbell, everything else would break/is too heavy

Submitted July 8, 2026 at 11:22PM by Dull-Chapter1913 https://ift.tt/nXyUWMg

Anyone tried tasing themselves with a stun gun?

So I am extremely curious as to what it feels like. My brother has done it to himself multiple times and says it’s not that bad. I’m trying to get someone to describe what the pain feels like but if I google it or use AI to try and figure it out, it always thinks I’m depressed. I have such an urge to do it to myself but I am scared haha 😂

Submitted July 8, 2026 at 09:32PM by AizawasDaughter https://ift.tt/t4PBbU0

Non-lethal weapons for home defense

Hi

I live in a tiny island country where guns are illegal and they have extremely stupid laws when it comes to self defense.

Hell, even pepper spray is illegal here.

My country and neighborhood used to be very safe until now.

There has been a spate of reports of drugged up violent youths harassing women, threatening to r@pe them and most recently a bone chilling violent break in by two guys armed with rods threatening to kill a guy and these fellas were coked up.

For context - I'm a tiny 5'6 guy, there is only so much muscle I can put on when I'm facing guys twice my size who are high on god knows what?

First variable lethality - because of the strict self defense laws I don't want to accidently kill or permanently disable someone. If I do so even if I can prove my life was in danger I could be the one who ends up in prison.

Second variable - practicality given I'm such a short person.

Submitted July 8, 2026 at 04:34PM by footyfan92 https://ift.tt/D4qfnRC

After work I was walking in the parking lot and something happened...

After work, it was around 9:40 PM, and I like to walk in the parking lot to get my step count up for about 30 minutes. In the same parking lot, there is, I guess, a pickleball field. It’s a new thing, and it attracts a lot of people, almost 100 at times, many of them teenagers.

In this area, there are a lot of wealthy teenagers who have a lot of money, and their parents buy them fast, nice cars. The parking lot is huge, almost too big for the needs of where I work and for the pickleball field.

I had my earphones in and was walking. I know that the teenagers drive really fast in the parking lot because it’s so big. They speed, going like 75 miles an hour. So I try to be careful. I walk near the islands and stuff, which may not protect me, but I’m trying to stay aware. Maybe I shouldn’t be walking there. I’ve always walked there. It used to be a lot quieter and safer before the pickleball fields. I’ve been walking there for about six years, and there have been no problems, but recently it’s been becoming more unsafe.

Out of nowhere, while I’m walking, someone yells, “Get the fuck out of the way! You need to watch where you’re going, you white piece of shit! Cars have preferential treatment in parking lots. Pedestrians don’t have the right of way. If you keep walking around here, I’m gonna run you over, and it’s gonna be your fault.”

He then drove off and parked at the pickleball field a couple hundred feet away. He had driven around before parking and met up with someone. I was only about 20 feet away from my car, so I got in as fast as I could. I was very scared. I didn’t say anything when he was yelling at me. It was some teenager. I just looked at him because I was shocked.

When I got in my car, I had an adrenaline dump and had a hard time concentrating. I wanted to call the cops, but I didn’t because I didn’t think anything could be done. I thought about confronting them, but I didn’t because I know that wouldn’t have solved anything. There’s not much you can do when somebody is in a vehicle. What if they actually do run you over?

That’s the thing. They’re in that car, and they think they’re invincible. I don’t know. I guess I just have to live with the fact that he got the best of that interaction. If he was on foot, it would be different, but because he was in a car, he felt invincible. Stupid, spoiled rich kids. Perhaps I shouldn't be walking in the parking lot anymore. But a part of me just feels like if I leave, then I truly have lost. Part of me wonders my pride was hurt because somebody was bossing me around or frightening me and there's nothing I can do about it I think sometimes you just have to take thanks this is nothing you can do I wish there was something I could have done. I was thinking maybe I should've just told him to F off what if you would've got out of the car and attacked me what if you said oh you just told me to F off I'm gonna show you how tough I am and he gets out of the car and like I don't know shoots me or something there's a million reasons never to stand up for yourself a million fears

Submitted July 8, 2026 at 01:20PM by Mr_CosmicOrder https://ift.tt/BjiV91g

Women what is your first instinct?

This question is for the ladies. A man quite bigger than you as you cornered he's invading your personal space and not respecting your wishes when you tell him back off to the point where he's putting his hands on you. You feel threatened and disrespected. In this situation what is your first instinct to do to neutralize the threat and get away

Submitted July 8, 2026 at 04:29AM by retrocube16 https://ift.tt/ygEFuRZ

Looking to learn self-defense without trainer

I want to learn how to fight for self-defense, but don't really have a trainer available for a variety of reasons. My idea was to watch videos/courses on how to throw a punch, dodge, block, etc., and then practice sparring with my brothers. To avoid injuries, we wouldn't be hitting each other at full force. Obviously, it'll be messier than learning with a pro trainer, but probably still good enough for overall self defense. I was thinking about getting a pair gloves, hand wraps, mouthguard, and a mat. Is this a great idea? What would you guys advise?

Submitted July 6, 2026 at 07:19PM by Distroyer87941 https://ift.tt/VSfn1tN

"I'm dangerous when I see red, bro" / "I don't need to train"

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Submitted July 6, 2026 at 06:40AM by theopresent https://ift.tt/2y4BX95

Personal alarm that isn't easy to accidentally trigger

Hi there! Does anyone have recommendations for personal alarm devices that have an on/off switch in addition to its sound trigger?

That way, I can switch it on as I'm walking home at night and before that, I can leave it in/hanging on my bag without worrying about it triggering accidentally. Preferably one that ships internationally to Singapore.

Due to the laws here though, it cannot have any kind of tasing/stun/shock/knife/pepper spray feature because that counts as a weapon and that's illegal here.

Submitted July 5, 2026 at 07:35AM by ItBetterBeRH https://ift.tt/XVMKigk

Female recently attacked & needs suggestions

I live in the worst part of Philadelphia unfortunately. Not to long ago I was robbed and then jumped by 8/9 men. They got me from behind so I'm not sure what I could have done to protect myself.

I'm looking for any suggestions for anything that I can use for protection. Keep in mind I'm in a city area, the attackers will most likely be running around, moving fast and multiple of them. I would need something to have enough effect to keep them in one spot for a moment so I can swiftly seek safety. Because if not then they will without a doubt sh00t me.

So depending on the situation I would have to go really assess what is happening and if me using protection is a pro or con.

ANY advice at all would be helpful.

Submitted July 5, 2026 at 12:43AM by DuckieyD https://ift.tt/J9RjGAM

Bulk Pepper Spray?

Hey, I’m not sure if this violates the weapon rules or not, but I don’t have any idea what other subreddit I’d post this in.

I work at an ER as a scribe and was recently notified we will either have to start paying to park in the garage near the hospital or park for free at a parking lot a sizable distance away. Seeing as we already don’t get paid very much already, I, and many of my fellow coworkers, will likely elect to park in the lot.

This, of course, makes me concerned about the safety of my fellow employees, especially if we’re working the night shift and having to walk alone in the relative darkness.

So, I was thinking of buying mini pepper spray to distribute to people who want it, preferably in bulk, and I wanted to know if anyone’s done the same and has any recommendations for what to buy. I’d most likely just be paying for this out-of-pocket, but the price wouldn’t be too much of a concern for me.

Submitted July 2, 2026 at 05:40AM by GodsEye18x https://ift.tt/edryGJA

Options for two 15 y/o females

My daughters have started riding public transportation and have faced harassment on several occasions.

Mostly men becoming aggressive after declining their advances.

They currently have tazer and pepper spray we purchased from a sports store.

HOWEVER, we were informed these items are banned from public transportation and their schools.

Their father said to ignore the rules but I disagree.

What other options are available?

We are in Texas and they are teenagers.

Submitted July 1, 2026 at 09:04AM by Classic_Teaching9813 https://ift.tt/mxhuQlq

A Byrna for extra home protection/ease of mind for someone? OR nah?

I want something just to have in the house for some security and I can't do a gun. Like physically. I have artheritis in hands and also guns are heavy and so uncomfortable in my hands, but a Byrna was comfortable when I tested one out. ​didn't hurt as much. It seems like a decent option to like help you immobilize someone long enough to maybe get help. Or any other suggrstion for non-gun at home thing?

Submitted June 30, 2026 at 01:44PM by EmIsLocatedHere https://ift.tt/QF7Oi3q

AR pistol or Draco in the pants

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Submitted June 28, 2026 at 07:15AM by Effective-Key-3795 https://ift.tt/Y4RLbxh

How do I take down a strong and well built man?

How do you make a 5'10-11, 200-300lbs man surrender to you? As In, how can you self defend against a man who is known for violence and abuse? He is a very giant man and his strength has never been questioned by anyone who know him yet there has been some circumstances where he'd threaten me with violence and power these days. So just in case something happens to me one day, I want to know where do I hit for him to feel enough pain to be unable to do anything to me for a good while. I'm not the kind of person to hurt someone at all but this is important because my life is on the life. Please give me some advices. Thank you.

Submitted June 28, 2026 at 03:42AM by miniidoe https://ift.tt/ENUjOgb

Handling the Stress

I just came back from hanging out with a colleague of mine. It was my wife, her, and I. When we had our last cup of coffee and left the place, we were standing near my colleague's car, having our last two-minute conversation. Suddenly, I realized a guy was standing about 10 feet away from us, specifically behind us, wearing a puffer jacket (35-40°C weather btw), one hand in his pocket, and nervously looking around, constantly checking his watch on his wrist. After realizing this, I told my wife and my colleague to get in the car. She took us somewhere farther away, where she and my wife said that they both realized the weird guy. I know that we were safe then, nothing dangerous happened, or whatever could have happened was prevented thanks to our awareness, but I just can't get over it. I'm now at home, sitting in front of my laptop, imagining what could have happened. I'm imagining every single scenario, and I feel extremely stressed. What if something had happened and I couldn't protect my loved ones? I practiced martial arts before, Muay Thai for about 4 years, and I still kinda do, but I feel extremely stressed after similar situations. Even if nothing happened, I can't get over it and think about the situation for at least two days. Is this normal? Does this happen to all of us, or do I need some professional help?

Submitted June 27, 2026 at 04:33PM by ucglnr https://ift.tt/J1osLcF

Defending myself in college communal shower

They gave me the one dorm that gives me a genuine fear for my safety. I have to share a communal shower where any male in the building has access to me in the shower, which I’m terrified of what they could do to me. What would be the best way to defend myself in college communal shower?

Submitted June 27, 2026 at 02:04PM by Fickle_Guide_330 https://ift.tt/o1Netg5

What’s a realistic self defense plan for someone living alone?

I live alone in an apartment and I’ve been thinking more seriously about personal safety lately.

I’ve taken a basic self defense class, and I try to stay aware of my surroundings, but I’m trying to figure out what a realistic everyday self defense approach actually looks like beyond just that.

I get that martial arts takes time and I’m not expecting overnight results, so I’m more interested in practical things people actually use day to day.

For those who’ve thought this through, what does your setup or routine look like?

Is it mainly awareness, home security, pepper spray, habits, or a mix of things?

Just trying to build something realistic without overthinking or becoming paranoid.

Submitted June 27, 2026 at 05:24AM by Confident_Draw321 https://ift.tt/wYcTA8U

Self defense decision tree: how do you decide what to learn first?

I’m 32F, living alone in a city, and I’ve started thinking more seriously about personal safety after a couple incidents in my neighborhood.

The problem is I keep getting completely different advice depending on who I ask.

Some people say start with awareness + pepper spray. Others recommend martial arts like BJJ or Krav Maga. Some say firearms. And some say you eventually need a mix of everything.

I don’t really have the time or budget to do all of it at once, so I’m trying to figure out if there’s any kind of order or framework people use when starting from zero.

What did you prioritize first, and why? Did you build layers over time, or focus on one thing until you felt solid?

Also curious what you wish you had done differently in hindsight.

Submitted June 27, 2026 at 03:15AM by Additional-Leg280 https://ift.tt/Y6QsP81

Thinking of buying a stab proof jacket from this guys

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Submitted June 26, 2026 at 07:07PM by ProcedureFar4995 https://ift.tt/JbVf5rX

Fear Doesn’t Create Respect. It Creates Survival.

By Rob Andress

Violence Prevention Specialist

Street Safe Self Defence Training Company

Fear and Respect Are Two Very Different Things

One of the biggest myths I hear is that fear creates respect.

It doesn’t.

Fear creates survival.

People often confuse the two because, on the surface, they can look the same. Someone becomes quiet. They stop arguing. They comply. They agree. They keep their head down.

Many people look at that behaviour and think, “See? They respect me.”

I don’t.

I see someone whose brain has shifted into survival mode.

After more than 30 years studying violence, teaching thousands of Canadians, and working with healthcare professionals, teachers, municipalities, REALTORS®, security teams, and young people, I’ve learned one thing that never changes:

Human behaviour makes far more sense when you understand what the brain is trying to accomplish.

At Street Safe Self Defence Training Company, we spend far less time asking, “What’s wrong with this person?” and much more time asking, “What is this person’s brain trying to achieve right now?”

That question changes everything.

The Brain Doesn’t Care About Your Ego

Your brain has one primary job.

Keep you alive.

It doesn’t care whether you’re in a boardroom, a classroom, a hospital, or at home arguing with your partner.

If your brain believes you’re under threat, it starts changing how you think, how you communicate, and how you behave.

That’s biology.

Not weakness.

Not attitude.

Not disrespect.

Fight, Flight, Freeze… and Fawn

Most people have heard of fight or flight.

Far fewer understand freeze or fawn.

Yet I see these responses every week.

Someone becomes aggressive.

Someone walks away.

Someone shuts down.

Someone smiles, apologizes, agrees with everything being said, and tries desperately not to upset the other person.

People often mistake that last one for respect.

It isn’t.

It’s called fawning, and it’s one of the brain’s survival strategies when someone feels they can’t fight or escape.

Understanding that can completely change how we interpret human behaviour.

This Happens Every Day

Think about the employee who’s afraid to question the boss.

The teenager who agrees because they don’t want to be rejected.

The healthcare worker who stays silent.

The victim of domestic violence who appears loyal to the very person hurting them.

The student who laughs at the bully’s joke.

People often ask,

“Why didn’t they just say something?”

Because sometimes the safest thing the brain believes it can do… is survive the moment.

That isn’t weakness.

That’s human biology doing exactly what it evolved to do.

Fear Produces Compliance. It Doesn’t Produce Trust.

If people only listen because they’re afraid…

they’re not following you.

They’re managing you.

They’re constantly assessing risk.

They stop sharing ideas.

They stop reporting problems.

They stop telling you the truth.

They simply become better at surviving around you.

That’s not leadership.

That’s intimidation.

And intimidation has never been a sustainable way to build healthy relationships, healthy workplaces, or safer communities.

This Is Why We Teach Behaviour First

Everything we teach at Street Safe Self Defence Training Company starts with one principle.

Understand behaviour before you attempt control.

Whether it’s our CARE (Clinical Awareness & Response to Escalation) program for healthcare, TRAACS (Tactical Risk Awareness & Applied Combatives System) for municipalities and security professionals, or our work with schools and REALTORS®, the principle never changes.

Violence doesn’t come out of nowhere.

Behaviour tells the story first.

If we learn to recognize that story early enough, we often prevent the violence from ever happening.

That’s what real violence prevention looks like.

Not bigger muscles.

Not better punches.

Better understanding.

Respect Has to Be Earned

Respect grows through consistency.

Integrity.

Fairness.

Competence.

Keeping your word.

Treating people with dignity.

Fear takes a different path.

Fear grows through uncertainty.

Control.

Threats.

Humiliation.

Power.

They may produce similar behaviour in the short term.

But they’re completely different experiences for the person living through them.

One builds relationships.

The other builds survival strategies.

Final Thoughts

One of the most important lessons I’ve learned over the years is this:

Behaviour always makes sense once you understand what the brain believes it’s protecting.

The next time someone becomes quiet, agrees with everything, avoids conflict, or suddenly changes their behaviour, don’t automatically assume you’ve earned their respect.

Ask yourself a better question.

Have I earned their trust… or have I simply triggered their survival response?

Those are two very different things.

Understanding that difference is one of the foundations of violence prevention.

And it’s one of the reasons we continue teaching people across Canada that violence isn’t just about what happens during an assault.

It’s about understanding human behaviour long before violence ever begins.

Because at Street Safe Self Defence Training Company, our mission has never been to teach people how to win fights.

Our mission is much simpler.

Stop the Before, so the After Never Happens.

About the Author

Rob Andress is a Violence Prevention Specialist and co-founder of Street Safe Self Defence Training Company, one of Canada’s leaders in reality-based violence prevention education. Along with Beth Andress, he provides evidence-informed training to healthcare professionals, municipalities, educators, security teams, corporations, and real estate professionals across Canada. His work focuses on behavioural awareness, situational awareness, conflict management, and violence prevention through understanding human behaviour.

Learn More

Street Safe Self Defence Training Company

https://www.streetsafeselfdefence.com/

CARE – Clinical Awareness & Response to Escalation

https://www.streetsafeselfdefence.com/care/

TRAACS – Tactical Risk Awareness & Applied Combatives System

https://streetsafeselfdefence.com/traacs-training/

Street Safe for Agents

https://www.streetsafeforagents.com/

References

American Psychological Association – Trauma and Stress: https://www.apa.org/topics/trauma

Cleveland Clinic – Fight, Flight, Freeze, and Fawn Responses: https://health.clevelandclinic.org/fight-flight-freeze-and-fawn

Polyvagal Institute: https://www.polyvagalinstitute.org/

Sapolsky, R. M. Why Zebras Don’t Get Ulcers.

Porges, S. W. The Polyvagal Theory.

Submitted June 25, 2026 at 07:31AM by The-Real-Street-Safe https://ift.tt/Z9IKBRP

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Submitted June 25, 2026 at 08:00AM by Flaming_Crossbow https://ift.tt/cXGvL0K

Is there any chance to counter him ?

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Submitted June 24, 2026 at 04:39PM by turbulent-waffle-69 https://ift.tt/gQ9irY6

Women should get guns to self-defense

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Submitted June 24, 2026 at 01:26PM by Top_Warthog_5562 https://ift.tt/xw4yb8S

Gun safety. Not gun stupidity.

I’m assuming it’s a joke, but if you’ve just posted about how happy you are that you’re now licensed by the police to carry a gun and use deadly force, then perhaps they should take another look at your psychological eval.

Submitted June 24, 2026 at 02:27AM by PEngineAgent https://ift.tt/xvyQZNn

What Actually Happens If You Go To The "Second Location"

I've heard people say "do not go to the second location" but does anyone actually know what happens in "the second location" other than "nothing good" or "something you'll probably never survive". Everyone always discusses it in vague errie terms, but like, what happens at a second location?

Submitted June 24, 2026 at 01:51AM by Any-Palpitation8860 https://ift.tt/Ed9pe4g

This sub has become toxic and uninformed

I don't feel comfortable giving advice any further. It seems as many inquiries are not about defense, but actually offense. Clean your mind.

Submitted June 23, 2026 at 06:15PM by random123121 https://ift.tt/qEK5YC6

Effective knife blade length?

In my country, in order to qualify as a "cold weapon", the blade length of a knife must be more than 90 mm. I'm pretty sure that a 90 mm blade won't be effective in a self-defense scenario, against a fairly muscular/fat dude. What kind of blade length is guaranteed to incapacitate? If you're jumped at by an attacker and the only thing accessible is your knife, you wouldn't want to lightly graze the fat and muscle tissue, would you? If your opponent is under influence of substances or just a violent kind of schizo, that kind of damage won't stop him for a pretty long while, and that's not the kind of risk you want to take when it comes to self-defense. Sorry if my post violates the rules.

Submitted June 23, 2026 at 02:16PM by Orurokku https://ift.tt/iu78FT0

Unavoidable Run-in with Violent Stranger

I was targeted by a violent(and possibly homeless) man the day before yesterday. I was walking my dog as I normally do, 6am in the morning, bright out, and this tall skinny crackhead-looking guy was standing in the middle of the grass area I have to pass to get to the big church parking lot I do laps in everyday. I've never seen him before.

As I rounded the bushes at the corner of the grass area, I spotted him immediately since he was wearing a bright gray hoodie w/ hood up, light blue sweatpants, and he was already mean-mugging me hard. What startled me the most was how fast my gut began screaming at me that this was serious. My dog noticed him as well and he rushed me almost immediately as my dog began to bark and snap at him(he was ~10yds from us, on the other side of a low 2ft bush that was inbetween us). He was speaking through his teeth with a hoodrat/gangster accent that he was gonna kill me and my dog so I stuck out my arm, pointing directly at his face, and told him not to come near me as my dog and I kept walking ahead while also holding my dog back from biting him.

He completely ignored my dog lunging and barking at him while advancing towards me, hands tucked, and kept low mumbling the disgusting things he was gonna do to me while following me a short distance through the huge empty parking lot which made me nervous. If he wasn't afraid of my dog ready to attack him, he was 100% ready to fulfill his earlier death-threats to kill us. But I guess since I didn't give him the reaction he wanted quickly enough, he stopped and went back when I acted like I ignored him and shrugged him off as unimportant, as I usually do to POS like him. Unfortunately it didn't end there.

He continued stalking me as we walked down the street and was now waiting for me to pass him on the way home. I turned around to check and he was pacing around back and forth like a rabid animal and still talking to himself right in the pathway we just had came from, repeatedly staring me down and posturing to square up at me(he even ripped the neckline of his hoodie in anger like he was showing his chest). I had a pocket knife on me and a cordless hole-puncher but no way was I gonna let this demon get near me or my dog. He most likely had something on him as well + a disease or two minimum and I can't risk my dog getting hurt or me going to jail.

Even with that being said, I had no other options as that was the only path home so I ended up walking back on the other side of the street as a few cars passed us and he started walking away the same direction to stay in front of us, still talking shit and punching his fists together. He went far enough ahead, maybe thinking that's where I was headed to stay in my current path, that I managed to cross the street quickly in his direction and it startled him. He squared up again ~20yds from us but I gave quick glance and kept moving as we went back through the parking lot and went home, making sure he didn't follow again or see where I live.

My question is what can I do about someone who is now a known threat but an innocent life under your protection is with you while having your hands-tied legally(dogs are property under my state's law and I would be crucified if I took someone's life over them hurting or killing my dog)? I'm not too fond of some lowlife that's now seemingly claimed territory over my favorite place my dog and I like to spend time at, especially super close to home. The "calling the cops" route is useless, they can't do anything until something happens(their own words, almost verbatim).

So far I've just been taking her a different route but the issue still sits in the back of my mind.

Submitted June 23, 2026 at 12:00PM by Eazy_Rider831 https://ift.tt/RJ3eXHn

Romanian Self Defense Gun Laws

Romanian self defense gun laws are so incredibly stupid.

It states that you should store your gun in a separate safe from your ammunition, locked at all times.

My f'in question is; If someone enters my home, wielding a knife or a bat at my family, how much time will he give me to unlock my also locked container in which i keep my ammo, load my gun, or insert a loaded magazine which also should be in a separate locked container from said firearm.

So by the time one can take action you can also start counting how many obituaries you'll have to write if you're still alive that is. (and i'm talking about rubber bullets btw, not even real ammo unless you go through the hassle of acquiring that permit.)

Also i've just had an incident where someone came inside my house, tried to strangle me with no provocation after i tried walking away, I gave him the pacifier (3 punches to the face and a headbutt) and then somehow i got in trouble because i used excessive force, in my own home.

How is this even possible. I have a 9 yr old sister, some 40 year old dude waltzes into my house, attacks me with no prior provocation, and then i'm in knee deep shit because of him. What.

EDIT: if someone is more knowledgeable, please feel free to share your perspective. I talked to a police officer after said incident, he was the one who told me that i have used excessive force (i'm 128 pounds to the other guy's 198-ish)

Submitted June 22, 2026 at 02:37PM by Pitiful_Bit_8924 https://ift.tt/WqlMtoa

Looking for opinion on self defence video - outsider perspective

I have a video & im looking for a outsider perspective on if it appears self defence applies. comment or message & I will send the video

Submitted June 21, 2026 at 11:01PM by zaghandis https://ift.tt/kzgLAGf

how would you view this self-defense scenario?

Looking for legal opinions on a self-defense homicide case.
Hypothetical scenario:
A man gets involved in an altercation at a bar after seeing a family member being attacked. During the chaos, he strikes a woman who he believes is involved in the altercation. The situation is eventually broken up and everyone is removed from the bar.
After leaving, the man goes to his vehicle and sits there for several minutes trying to locate the person he came with so they can leave. He makes multiple phone calls and remains in the vehicle for a period of time.
Eventually he gets out of the vehicle to look for the person he came with. While walking, he is recognized by several people (let’s say 5 people) connected to the earlier altercation. They begin confronting him about striking the woman earlier.
Initially he believes they just want to argue or demand an explanation. However, the confrontation becomes more heated. The group continues closing distance, another person joins them, and he begins backing away while raising his hands. Witnesses and video reportedly show him retreating and creating distance while the group continues moving toward him.
The video ends before the final use of force occurs.
The man ultimately uses deadly force, resulting in a death, and is later charged with murder.
Questions:
Legally, does the fact that the original bar fight had ended and everyone separated matter?
Does sitting in a vehicle for several minutes before the second confrontation help establish that these were two separate events?
How do juries generally view evidence showing someone backing away with their hands up?
Can a person reasonably fear death or serious bodily injury from a group of approximately four people approaching, even if no one has thrown a punch during the final encounter?
Does striking a woman earlier in the night automatically make the defendant the aggressor in the later confrontation?
If the video stops before the actual shooting, how do juries typically evaluate what likely happened next?
Would this fact pattern be more consistent with murder, voluntary manslaughter, or possible self-defense?
Interested in legal analysis and jury-perspective discussion rather than moral opinions.

Submitted June 21, 2026 at 09:00AM by PlumExotic7419 https://ift.tt/smjB2oF

Would using pepper spray on someone who attempted armed robbery…

Be a bad idea? I understand the ability to use proportionate force but what if you don’t have a firearm?

Submitted June 17, 2026 at 06:33PM by Relevant_Conclusion2 https://ift.tt/EfnW7Mh

Throwing elbow at a punch?

I know elbows can be used to block punches, but I was watching Mr Inbetween and there is a fight scene where he throws his elbow at the incoming punches (like his elbow is a baseball bat and the incoming punch is a ball) and he breaks the other guys hand doing this.

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Is this realistic or possible? I imagine it would be difficult to pull off anyway.

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Submitted June 17, 2026 at 09:11AM by BarkingMad14 https://ift.tt/qFQIBs8

self defense for london

im from a rural area and ive never had to worry about my safety going out by myself. im going to the big city next month, and i wouldnt be able to protect myself if i get attacked. i feel like i should get some self defense gear just in case like a rape alarm, pepper spray, taser, or something. im not sure where to start. what should i get and where from?

Submitted June 16, 2026 at 07:33PM by thrushlydeathrally https://ift.tt/5wnSrzG

How do I learn how to box?

I’ve been boxing for a while but my form is sloppy, I learned the basics from a guy I met at my gym who is a professional boxer over the span of 4 months. Hes moved recently, and this summer I want to sharpen and improve my skills. My gym has a rec area with punching bags. I can’t afford a coach so I have to learn myself.

Submitted June 16, 2026 at 08:41AM by whosethegoat124 https://ift.tt/dSjwXWn

He’s former LAPD. He had a lot of interesting insight about defense.

https://youtu.be/7ujQ7HoaDRE?si=0Oqz_EPB_-CQhaik

Submitted June 16, 2026 at 01:04AM by StripMallMaster https://ift.tt/OhyHp0W

Collapsible baton for walking with stroller

Hi I want advice on walking the neighborhood with a toddler in a stroller. occasionally my neighborhood has large dogs on the loose and I think a collapsible baton might be a compact tool that would be easy to juggle/carey. I think it would be good to create distance, deter and provide defense and I wouldn’t have to worry about my toddler pepper spraying herself if she gets her hands on it. The added benefit of having a tool for a woman and child from creeps is also undeniable

i don’t particularly want to CC a handgun in sweatpants with my toddler.

I know it’s against the law in some places but not in my state to open carry it, but my intent it more on creating a deterrent (especially for dogs) rather than beating someone like Rodney king.

Submitted June 15, 2026 at 01:18AM by Mjrfrankburns https://ift.tt/xMjcC3a

Dealing with aggressive homeless people

So my friend came and visited me while I was staying in SF in a hotel for the weekend. We had a pretty chill weekend and he had parked in a garage about 2 blocks away. I help him carry some luggage and when we’re one block down we cross the street when the go light is on. I make it to the other side and wait on the corner of the intersection because we have to cross the street again and this homeless guy with a wagon of stuff I think was trying to cross to where we just were. He yells at me and says for me to get the fuck out of his way. I sidestep and he doesn’t move and just glares at me and is like DUDE WTF GET OUT MY WAY AND goes up to me and pushes me. I tell him fuck off and the other walkway goes off so my friend and I start crossing again. We looked back at the guy and he’s in the middle of his walkway just pissed off and still staring at me and is like YOU MADE ME DROP SOMETHJNG STUPID PIECE OF SHIT! He calls me the n word and f slur and yells and says he’s going to punch me in the face. My friend and I scurried off but he was just screaming at me as I was walking away. I don’t really want trouble but I honestly was not in this guys way at all and my friend said he was about to shove him if he got aggressive in my face or followed me.

How do you deal with aggressive homeless people if they literally aren’t even panhandling or anything but they just come up to you like they have a problem with you?

I’m a 5’10 pretty scrawny white guy, I’ve been to sf many times but never had an interaction like this. My friend is 6 ft and pretty big but I won’t always have friend nearby.

Submitted June 15, 2026 at 12:50AM by magicmongoose1 https://ift.tt/3EAn71I

I run security for a church. Here's our stress inoculation drill.

I work as a security sergeant for a large church and school complex — armed team, active shooter response protocols, the works. One of the things we prioritize in training is stress inoculation: making sure skills hold up when your body is under physical and emotional stress, not just at the range when everything is calm.

Most self-defense training I see focuses on technique in controlled conditions. Which is fine for building the skill — but it doesn't prepare you for the cardiovascular reality of an actual threat.

We recently filmed a drill: sprint 50 yards full effort, then immediately engage targets. I did this alongside one of our instructors (active duty, blurred on camera). The degradation in fine motor control is real and it's something every civilian who carries should understand and train for.

Curious whether others here incorporate this kind of training — and if so, what protocols you use.

Happy to share the footage if there's interest.

Submitted June 14, 2026 at 07:37PM by slashoom https://ift.tt/eA3Yu7I

Best Martial Arts for real life situations (Female, 5”2)

Hi, I am a 5”2 female weighing 115 pounds. I am looking to learn self defense skills to feel safer going out alone as a woman. Which martial arts would you recommend?

Submitted June 14, 2026 at 04:31PM by NextBroccoli3017 https://ift.tt/MT5GgOw

pepper cigarette nonlethal 1 foot range

https://youtube.com/watch?v=5JZvCOnlrJg&si=HfqLSmE0DRtbQC0i

Submitted June 14, 2026 at 11:37AM by No-County-3753 https://ift.tt/Cv6aAns

I am a woman in Canada; how can I protect myself?

Things like pepper spray aren’t allowed. Bear spray is allowed but only for hikes. I had someone shove me extremely hard and choke me and I weigh around 120lbs!
All I did was freeze. I didn’t even get to report it since I felt extreme shame!

How do I prepare myself if something like that happens again? I grew up in an abusive household which made me a prime target for predators and abusers.

I am still angry about the incident.
What YouTube videos can I watch to learn how to defend myself?
I don’t have money for BJJ and self defence classes.

Submitted June 13, 2026 at 01:38PM by actionorientedshiena https://ift.tt/vtfqeHi

Is this a good wrap job

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Submitted June 12, 2026 at 12:23PM by SirWalruslll https://ift.tt/klbmhQS

Had a encounter with an aggressive vagrant in NYC and my ego hurts

Hi guys I had a very interesting encounter today on 73rd and Broadway and I’m beating myself up for it.

I saw this man about 5”9 skinny but strong build seemingly harass this older man outside of a bank. By the time I got close he was already walking away. I had gotten in front of him and turned around to him accosting an old woman. She must’ve been 85+ she was using a walker and hunched over completely moving at snail speed. He had his arm around her and kept saying “You got beer?! Give me beer! So I stepped in and put my hand in between them not touching him and said hey man just let her go she doesn’t have anything. In a very nice and calm way. For context I am also 5”9 (same height as this guy), 180lbs right now with muscle not fat and have trained Muay Thai for 3 years and BJJ for two. I’m not some UFC fighter but I can hold my own against the average person. Back to the story. After I stepped in and spoke to him he turned to me and said are you with her angrily. I said yeah I’m with her hoping that would deescalate the situation right away. He turns to her and asks her “is he with you?” and this damn lady says no! Like are you stupid I am trying to fucking help you. So then the guy turns to me and tells me to back the fuck away. I stood my ground and tried to talk him down until the old lady had gotten away and had some distance between us. He then gets in my face and is yelling “walk away bro I’m going to beat the shit out of you” etc etc. So I stood in his face for a couple seconds talking to him and my right hand was twitching I truly truly wanted to smash his face into the ground. But I said okay man you got it and walked away. He began to follow me for a couple blocks at a distance saying walk away man walk away I’m going to fuck you up. I would stop periodically and say you’re going to attack me for helping an old woman? You’re going to attack me on Broadway? But he continued to walk forward yelling so I walked away and called the cops. They told me that they can’t even do anything if they find him since he didn’t touch me. I said what would have happened if I hit him when he was in my face and they said I would have gone to jail. They said even if he hits you and you’re rolling around you’re both going to jail. They did say that realistically the court case would be open and shut since he’s a lunatic but I did the right thing for helping the lady and not fighting him. I feel like a pussy though. He was a bad guy and a bully and I wanted to show him why you shouldn’t bully anyone you see on the street. I was very scared of him having a weapon though and that also made me hesitant. I just feel like a baby and I should have taken into my own hands and not walked away. I feel terrible about this. What do you guys think? Did I do the right thing or should I have taken it to the next step?

Submitted June 11, 2026 at 10:11PM by Savage--Opress https://ift.tt/EjAw2UP

Have any women seen/caused this to happen?

I heard my self defense instructor the other day say that if you kick a guy in the groin hard enough he will vomit. like I know it's possible for that to happen (men UFC etc..) but how frequent/true is this realistically? have any other women seen/done this before?

Submitted June 11, 2026 at 07:10AM by secretaccount08 https://ift.tt/CG8SkoH

How do I defend myself from a grappler?

Keep in mind, I don’t do bjj at all, Ive boxed for a few years at max. There’s this kid at my high school who is constantly trying to instigate a fight by pushing people around. He does bjj, and is on my schools wrestling team. Unfortunately hes in my gym class and in the locker rooms he’s constantly coming after me, picking on me and stuff. Hes done this before and let’s say if anything happens, what can I do so I don’t end up on the lockeroom floor? My schools administrators don’t do squat btw.

Submitted June 10, 2026 at 07:51PM by whosethegoat124 https://ift.tt/cXrEqiu

I like this guy’s mindset when it comes to self defense.

https://youtu.be/N_eIPbnhr2I

Submitted June 9, 2026 at 02:30PM by StripMallMaster https://ift.tt/fv4aeZP

Self-defense techniques or weapons for cheating spouses?

It's a well-known statistic that a large fraction of homicides are committed by romantic partners, with affairs being one of the leading causes. Women, especially, are at far higher risk. If a woman is killed, it's very likely that the killer was a current or former romantic partner or spouse. Some stats go as far as to show that more than 3 out of every 4 women murdered were murdered by either a romantic partner or family.

So, what is the best way to defend yourself from being murdered in such domestic situations? Especially if you are cheating and could be caught at any time? What would you do to save yourself if your spouse catches you in bed with your lover? Especially considering that some other aggressor, like a robber or a home intruder, might be calm, methodical, and somewhat reasonable (like, give me money and I'll let you go), but the spouse who has just found out about the affair would be freaking out in a terrifying way? How do you defend against a person who is completely unpredictable like that? Unfortunately, even the law is on the side of the aggressor, with punishments as little as just one year or even simply probation in some states.

Submitted June 9, 2026 at 02:29AM by HighOnLove26 https://ift.tt/ULtZ32r

World champion Jon Haggerty unleashing fury!

https://youtube.com/watch?v=nBwZ5zR0oHQ&si=X1ViPSWUsRfL5EdJ

Submitted June 8, 2026 at 05:14PM by Beneficial_Ad9405 https://ift.tt/sWh3okT

How to break free ?

If someone pins ur lower body with their body weight and hold ur hands and is overpowering u in strength or bodyweight...how do u break free from it ? How do get out of that what method/technique/trick can be used for it assuming both parties involved are unarmed and it's not for any sport or anything but for self defence from an attack ....very intrested to know please let me know

Submitted June 8, 2026 at 07:05AM by Crazy_Description359 https://ift.tt/t09nGwA

A 6’5 aggressive meth head got in my face and threatened me

I’m 19, about 5’8” and I don’t have much fighting experience. Today I was walking on the sidewalk with my girlfriend when a guy who was sitting near the sidewalk/parking lot suddenly rushed toward me.

I didn’t really notice him at first because he was off to the side, but I was glancing around my surroundings and ended up making eye contact with him. Right after that, he immediately got up/rushed me like he wanted to fight. He got really close to me, started threatening me, and was acting very aggressive and wanting to “smash my head”.

The guy looked around 6’5”, way bigger than me, and seemed unstable. I honestly felt like if he actually attacked me, I probably wouldn’t have won because of the size difference and because he got so close so fast. I also had my girlfriend with me, so I was trying not to escalate anything or make the situation worse.

I ended up de-escalating by keeping my hands up, not acting aggressive, and saying things like “sorry” and trying to calm him down. Eventually it didn’t turn into a fight, but afterward I kept thinking about how close it came and how unprepared I felt.

For people with actual self-defense experience, what should I have done in that situation? How do you create distance when someone much bigger is already within a couple feet of you? How do you protect yourself and someone you’re with without escalating the situation? Also, how do you avoid freezing when someone suddenly rushes you like that?

Submitted June 8, 2026 at 05:14AM by No-Understanding528 https://ift.tt/opN5bkW

Obtain attorney aid for those defending themselves

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Submitted June 7, 2026 at 12:03PM by Erosofyourwallet https://ift.tt/VAZj4iW

Is the Hyperwhistle for EDC good? (Up to 142db loud btw)

https://ift.tt/K9sCv8I

Submitted June 7, 2026 at 07:09AM by badman_untamed https://ift.tt/nWTlLeF

I’m scared I won’t be able to protect my partner

I 30F recently started dating someone, also 30F. For some reason when I’ve been single or in other relationships, keeping my partner safe if something were to happen hasn’t really crossed my mind. The only time I can think of is when my ex and I were driving somewhere separately a road rager was trying to push her out of her lane. We stopped a red light and I yelled at him out my window that she was my girlfriend and to leave her alone. That was the first time I’ve considered I might be in genuine danger but I think I was so angry and worked up that I didn’t really consider what I’d do if he tried to hurt us.

Recently, my current partner and I were getting ice cream and she accidentally bumped into this guy, and he touched her back for a little too long before moving away from her. Not a huge deal, expect this man also had a sword on him and was wandering around the place not ordering anything, walking in and out of the bathroom, and just in general being sketchy. Both of us were really uncomfortable. Side note: she lives in Chicago and I live in the suburbs. If a man with a sword walked into an establishment where I live, the cops would have been called immediately by someone, but obviously it’s not unusual to see weird shit in the city.

Later that night, my girl made a joke about how I didn’t “protect her” from this guy. And for some reason that’s when it really hit me that if that guy had tried to hurt her, I’m not sure I would have been of any use. Again, if there was an actual threat or if I was mad, there’s a possibility I would try, but I’m smart enough to know that being mad is not a strategy for defending yourself or someone else.

In recent years, especially living in the US, I’ve wondered if I should get a gun just in case I ever need it. But I genuinely don’t feel comfortable with the idea of being armed. I do believe everyone should know gun safety and how to use one (I’ve been to a range and was taught the bare basics) but the idea of carrying that around just is a challenging concept for me at the moment. Now, my girl has a gun, but she doesn’t carry it in public and I think it’s more for protecting herself at home. Out in public she carries mace and sometimes a taser.

I know she wants to be with someone who would protect her, and it’s starting to really bother me that I’m not that person right now. In the last few months I have been interested in learning boxing and there’s a boxing gym about 5 minutes from me. I’ve also considered BJJ (again, a gym very close to me). I’m not even gonna ask the question of if I should start doing some form of martial art because the answer is obvious. If I’m not gonna carry a gun, I should at least know how to fight.

So, this was more of a rant than anything but I’m open to hearing any thoughts.

Submitted June 6, 2026 at 10:02PM by OopsAllTistic https://ift.tt/Kw0yu43

How to escape from someone who is grabbing you or partner by the hair

/r/MMA_Academy/comments/1tyvgn8/how_do_you_escape_from_someone_who_is_grabbing/

Submitted June 6, 2026 at 07:01PM by _TheSuperiorMan https://ift.tt/tlOV3j7

It's a decision you have to make BEFORE it happens.

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Submitted June 6, 2026 at 10:01AM by Reaper01Actual1970 https://ift.tt/lNKeGDU

Just avoided getting mugged need some advice

My wife and i went out for a late movie night a couple nights ago. We’re in Orange County California and we’ve always heard about the crime rates but never witnessed anything ourselves.

We were arriving within our gated community around 3 am when i see a black jeep just idling in the middle of the road within the community. I drive around him and he begins to follow closely. I park my car within our parking garage which is next to everyone else cars. However he parks his car directly behind to block me. We weren’t aware that we were followed until my wife exits the car and is immediately rushed by a hispanic man asking her “Quien eres?”. I grab my wife and pull her into the car and i pull out of the spot barely squeezing through. i attempt to block their car so i can get their license when he suddenly floors it. Had i not moved he would’ve t-boned me.

My wife and i were clearly shaken from the situation and i honestly don’t know what i could’ve done to protect her or myself. If the assailant was armed would any hand to hand combat really help? Should i consider taking course and arm myself while i get a taser for my wife? I’m relieved nothing happened but i’m concerned of ever being caught off guard and defenseless.

I appreciate any advice and if this isn’t the right subreddit to post this in please let me know where i should post this!

Submitted June 5, 2026 at 10:55PM by deepseadaydream https://ift.tt/j4fdvPM

Video of armed intruders fleeing when victim defends home, opens fire

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Submitted June 5, 2026 at 11:36AM by Reaper01Actual1970 https://ift.tt/db3JPzH

What are your views on safety pendants?

I have come across plenty of safety pendants, and I have also seen one of the talk shows promoting safety pendants. These pendants have features like a press button to trigger either a fake call, SOS with Location tracking, and a loud alarm. I'm just super curious to know whether these work or not.

Submitted June 4, 2026 at 07:59AM by Excellent-Plant-5392 https://ift.tt/qKXpx6U

Concealed Carry Pepper Spray Gun?

I need help finding a useful pepper spray that is in the shape of a firearm without presenting itself as one explicitly. I want something that can simulate the ergonomics so that when I am able to purchase one I’d be used to it. For context I’d be doing unarmed security, or any normal job. I also like going on walks or runs during times that are typically low light. I’ve never been in any danger, but I’m in a pretty ghetto area.

Submitted May 31, 2026 at 10:28PM by 8double_dip8 https://ift.tt/TvZow2L

Can I use pepper spray more than once?

I used my pepper spray once to try. But if I'm not wrong I saw something like they can be used only once. After that they are not safe to use because gas pressure will change after the first use.

Is that true? Should I change it to a new one? It's been like 2-3 weeks.

Submitted May 31, 2026 at 12:42PM by Krino6 https://ift.tt/ydFmMaT

Funny or...?

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Submitted May 31, 2026 at 04:19AM by theopresent https://ift.tt/yQHDuKZ

There has been an influx of robberies in my neighborhood.

They have begun coming into houses when the owners are inside. I am scared because i am a 16 year old girl that is often home alone and my house is quite big. What do I do if someone comes in? I mean I already have alarms and two doors on all entrances into the house but I am worried what I should do if they do get in. I wouldn't say I'd be totally useless in a fight, i'm 5'8 and quite muscular, however realistically, I know that up against a man of even my same height, I'd be absolutely useless. How do i make it out of this, and if it comes down to it, how do I fight a man (because i know a woman would probably not be robbing houses). I cannot own a firearm or shoot first because I live in canada, so that is not an option. I know I should hide and call authorities first. No turning on lights.

Submitted May 30, 2026 at 09:18PM by Dramatic_Try6843 https://ift.tt/Ib5iVUC

Anyone else terrified to run outside? got mugged and now i just can't

I've been on my treadmill for like a year now because i got mugged and i just. can't. go outside alone anymore. tried a few times, made it like two blocks, turned around. great.

The dumb part is i actually love running. Did anyone actually get past something like this? not looking for "you're so brave keep going" just actual stuff that helped. pepper spray? run clubs? certain times of day? idk i'm just tired of the treadmill

Submitted May 28, 2026 at 11:14AM by auto-lover0301 https://ift.tt/AmquwQp

How do I properly defend myself

Someone I was good friends with for the last 4 years offered to buy me some food and we went out to the shopping centre. He said he had no money and forgot so we walked back, on the walk back he was silent and weird despite being friendly all day. He then kicked my knees and stomped on my head multiple times instead of using his fists like a man, I got one single hit off, wasn't a bad shot but I'd like advice on how to defend myself properly next time (I'm quite tall but not all there in weight)

Submitted May 28, 2026 at 12:14AM by Wide_Bat6815 https://ift.tt/8KE6dJy

Strobe light defense.... What???

I see this a lot with flashlights.

By simply turning on the strobe feature of a flashlight, you can disorient an attacker and flee to safety while said attacker is trying reorient himself and figure out what just happened. Seriously, unless your attacker has epilepsy, I'm pretty dang sure that a strobe light in the face of an attacker is only going to tick them off.

So, why does this continue to be a theme used as a selling point with some flashlights?

https://preview.redd.it/c51w4z0n7s3h1.png?width=234&format=png&auto=webp&s=fdaed5e360e34180b1a4dbc7d14cdf75adbf7bde

Submitted May 27, 2026 at 09:34PM by Dangerous-You3789 https://ift.tt/oEU26Pj

What’s better for self defence, a knife or hammer? And why?

I’m just asking this question because I’m curious what’s better, a hammer or knife because they both have their strengths and weaknesses.

View Poll

Submitted May 27, 2026 at 05:27PM by No-Audience-5206 https://ift.tt/Pks8h2B

Legal items to carry to a bar or club

Looking for weapons of opportunity. What i means is, what regular item can i carry that can be used for self defense that is not illegal to carry to a place specifically for drinking like a bar or club. An example would be a scarf, and they have that martial arts that uses a scarf. I was looking at stuff like that. Another example would be learning to throw chopsticks (like you would a knife). I know you all will ask so here it goes-> i am female and last time i was out too many dudes kept trying to get me outside. I literally dress like a ninja when i goto the club to freak people out to stay away from me. I LOVE when the security watches me closely because they think i will do something. To me thats like extra protection. Truth is i fear someone will do something to me, but i cannot live happy in a bubble. Just looking for more ideas like the ones i described above. If you think a different sub is more appropriate please let me know🙏🙏🙏🙏

Submitted May 27, 2026 at 01:26PM by GhostOfTheShinobi https://ift.tt/5A8yO1J

Are short self-defence courses woth it?

Video on the subject (about 2 and a half minutes) my experience is over 30 years of various martial arts and over 20 of violent jobs.

https://youtube.com/shorts/zfsjK46jTJI?feature=share

Submitted May 27, 2026 at 08:01AM by BaseMonkeySAMBO https://ift.tt/3SRNgC1

Unusual self defense item?

Old school roll of coins. I favor a roll of nickles. Sort of Viagra for the first.

Submitted May 26, 2026 at 10:03PM by Klutzy-Bass8366 https://ift.tt/gcsm4ia

MMA or individual martial arts for real world self defense?

I’m a complete beginner trying to figure out the best path when it comes to martial arts and self defense.

Originally I considered going straight into MMA because it seems like the most complete option since it covers both striking and grappling. However, a relative of mine who has some martial arts experience told me that MMA can sometimes teach you a little bit of everything without necessarily helping you build a deep foundation in the individual arts themselves. Because of that, I started looking more into training specific disciplines individually.

At first I narrowed things down to Muay Thai for striking, BJJ for grappling and ground defense, and eventually Krav Maga later on for more self defense oriented training. The more I researched though, the more I started hearing different opinions. Some people say Muay Thai is amazing for clinching, elbows, knees, kicks, and overall toughness, but that boxing or kickboxing tends to develop better punching and hand striking. Others say MMA already combines all of this anyway and is still the best overall route for real-world fighting.

What I’m mainly looking for is to become well rounded for self defense. I want to get good at striking with both my hands and feet, develop solid footwork and movement like boxing emphasizes, be able to defend myself on the ground if things ever go there, stay calm under pressure, and build confidence overall. I’m not looking to compete professionally or become some cage fighter, just want practical skills that actually work in real life.

I’d also like to learn things like defending against strikes, controlling distance, and improving my overall situational awareness and self defense skills, although I understand avoiding dangerous situations is always the best option.

For those of you with actual experience training:

If you were starting over as a complete beginner focused mainly on practical self defense, what route would you personally recommend and why?

Submitted May 26, 2026 at 05:14PM by DriftCore31 https://ift.tt/YOUhPEx

Need help on staying sane outside, some guy might want to hurt me

Long story short I got robbed and was threatened with weapons. There's a hearing in a few months in my case. I'm the witness and the fucker who robbed me is the defendant.

You're kinda fucked in my country if there's evidence in court that you robbed someone with a weapon. I don't think he's going to go to jail, fine at most, but that's even worse probably lol.

My city is not big but also not that small, but I am 60% sure this guy and his friends passed by me in the city centre today.

He knows my name, most likely doesnt remember how I look, but I'm not sure, the group that I saw today was looking at me in a really fucking weird way. My adrenaline shot up and I was ready to start running.

Pretty much every time I go out into the city I keep scanning everything I see like I'm a cop. I know it's good practice to do shit like this and that prevention is the best self defense. But it's no way to live at all. This is my city, I was born here, some young cunts robbed me and threatened to kill me for no reason, and now I am afraid the guy wants to get some revenge or whatever the fuck. Especially after the court hearing but I will try to arrange it in a way that he won't see my face in court.

I dont have the time and money to invest in training. I work out and I run but I cant relax when Im outside. I feel like Im being hunted although nothing's happened to be fair.

Submitted May 26, 2026 at 03:20PM by Swimming_Dick8388 https://ift.tt/gEbiTGw

how to prevent someone from kicking your door in [non lethal]

https://youtube.com/watch?v=MZy-MMpO0KU&si=LcETudZvei5i8Ud_

Submitted May 25, 2026 at 06:26PM by No-County-3753 https://ift.tt/sy7LhW2

Homemade Pepper Spray - Self Defence

https://youtube.com/watch?v=And39PU-Nyw&si=LsIu1D-vhHkJw2T2

Submitted May 25, 2026 at 05:01PM by No-County-3753 https://ift.tt/wb1uTo4

Lets say that there is 4 or 5 people there are stronger than me

Which is best martial arts in can use to defense for my my self

Kraf maga?

Or music thay?

Or there is some other option?

Submitted May 25, 2026 at 02:43PM by 100justengineer https://ift.tt/eWw2mRy

motorbike gloves for self defense comfort/everyday use

little bit bout me im a 14 year old who tends to get into fights that i dont want i try and defuse the situations and also try to ignore the stuff but i get atacked anyway i want a way to defend myself and some of my freinds who also get targeted and ive been getting into motorbike stuff recently and go on drives with my grandpa on his motorbikes he has 6 of them so i want to get something for that aswell and i want to wear them quite often for comfort to because it gets quite cold where i am and ive been trying to find motorbike gloves for these reasons so does anyone have any suggestions for these things? what gloves i can buy for these reasons

Submitted May 24, 2026 at 05:11PM by Enduring_Night https://ift.tt/wIEFj2W

Semi discreet defense, camping, hiking, multi purpose keychain

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Submitted May 24, 2026 at 02:28PM by Ok_Initial_1583 https://ift.tt/8oAQMta

How do escape getting choked laying down by someone bigger than you?

I was on TikTok, YouTube, and Google trying to figure out how to escape getting strangled. And I noticed that all these women demonstrating were either fighting off other women or men either the same size or close. For reference I’m 5’0 and 115lbs if a man comes up to me both when standing up but especially when I’m laying down chances are I can’t flip them or pull them off of me. So what do I do to escape them? Cause so far all I’ve got is the turtle neck thing we’re u tuck ur neck and pull up your shoulders to get air.

Submitted May 22, 2026 at 10:52PM by sunsetsarecool123456 https://ift.tt/fptPHM0

Confused about ALICE training

I'm an independent educator that visits schools and other educational institutions throughout the year. I've attended two public "sessions" about how to respond in an active shooter situation, but they have been fairly informal. Looking at the ALICE website, their events are titled "Instructor Certification Training" which seems to be aimed at becoming an actual instructor. Does ALICE ever hold events or training that the public can attend, or do they only service professional organizations? As I am not affiliated with any particular school, I seem to have no way to attend a class.

If this is true...what alternative, in-personal informational "trainings" would you recommend?

Submitted May 20, 2026 at 11:20PM by starlightskater https://ift.tt/pEe1v7A

Can you knock someone out with 0 experience?

Ofcourse I'm not talking about knocking out an experienced boxer or a street fighter.

But if you ever get into a scenario where fighting back is the only option (like getting kidnapped or robbed randomly on the street because complying can get you into something even worse) could you knock somebody out without having any fight experience? (Considering you're stronger/weigh heavy than them)

Or are there any better ways to escape/defend yourself from a situation like that

Submitted May 20, 2026 at 04:49PM by Fun_Employment_9656 https://ift.tt/KnJlDrz

This No-Touch Body Control Proves Something Exists

https://youtu.be/TkOF36SE6V4?is=_NbMiTJdZH-H4b9I

Submitted May 19, 2026 at 02:27PM by Only-Perception4375 https://ift.tt/EDe4aiY

Energy control.

https://youtube.com/shorts/jJg9UZxKBFA?is=Xy9xtg2Ziv_ROCHn

Submitted May 19, 2026 at 01:46PM by Only-Perception4375 https://ift.tt/ALanCSN

Hammer or sick better in self defense

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Submitted May 18, 2026 at 02:45PM by theescoot https://ift.tt/rLENamF

Escaping advises

Hello!

I live in a country where you can be kidnapped in the street and force like meat to the frontline.

So when it happens to me I want to be prepared. And try to escape from their buildings.

What can you recommend to me for opening or cracking doors and windows?

Submitted May 18, 2026 at 02:35AM by Goodman889 https://ift.tt/rOVXfyk

Has anyone actually used a personal alarm keychain?

I've been looking into personal alarm keychains (the ones that emit a loud 120dB siren when you pull a pin) as a simple, non-lethal safety tool.

A few things I'm curious about:

1. Have you or someone you know ever actually triggered one in an emergency? What happened?

2. Do you think the sound is loud enough to deter an attacker or draw attention?

3. How long have you been carrying one, and does it give you genuine peace of mind or is it more of a placebo?

Would love to hear honest firsthand accounts positive or negative. Trying to figure out if this is genuinely useful or just a feel-good gadget.

Submitted May 18, 2026 at 01:56AM by kokosong https://ift.tt/GZg7O8e

Amazing energy. No touch.

https://youtube.com/shorts/j79qp3W-csw?is=6mhnmCBrtYHdY0hs

Submitted May 17, 2026 at 03:29PM by Only-Perception4375 https://ift.tt/731ejzD

I want to learn self defence

I am 6ft 2inch tall and moving to a more dangerous area so i want to learn how to self defence, guns are not allowed here and carrying a knife with me everytime is risky since i dont know how to use one, there are no martial arts school or classes in the area, so i am wondering how do i go about learning self defence and practising it, i have tried youtube but there are so many channels and i dont know if they are legit so i am open to recomendations about where to get this knowladge from and how to practise at home.

Submitted May 17, 2026 at 07:41AM by Bana_69 https://ift.tt/3qhl4uP

Systema Spetsnaz No Touch Combat Secret Exposed

https://youtu.be/1D8CCtRNiCs?is=qhPqbYjQnY3K9Bjq

Submitted May 16, 2026 at 03:33AM by Only-Perception4375 https://ift.tt/7QC6jOR

Is this in a good spot?(pepper spray)

https://ift.tt/Y31ARyG

Submitted May 15, 2026 at 11:49PM by novastone-17 https://ift.tt/FfgWrOy

Have you ever had to actually use your non-lethal weapon before?

I see a lot of folks carry pepper spray, non-lethal CO2 guns like the Byrna and Pistelle X-68 and there's a big market for this stuff but has anyone here ever had to use one? If so what was your experience? Did the threat stop?

Submitted May 15, 2026 at 04:29PM by CommunicationSea8821 https://ift.tt/cIRPfL0

How to counter and neutralise someone who’s bigger?

I’m at university and I’m in a student club and there’s this dude who’s bigger in size and always tries to insult me and to be aggressive towards me. He always tries to be the alpha in the group and I know this sounds cringe but it’s literally what he’s doing. For some reason he has targeted me and whenever he tries to attack me I always stand up for myself. The problem is however that I’m afraid this will escalate into physical violence.

If this happens I need to know what I can do in order the defend myself, and then cause to him as much damage as possible to neutralise his threat. Some will suggest to run away but the issue is I will put myself in a really bad position socially if I run away because he knows a lot of people and will try to ruin my reputation.

I’m really sad that I’m in this situation to begin with and I don’t know what to do. I want to at least be prepared if it escalates.

Also I just want to say I can’t speak to anyone about this because they will think I’m overreacting, lying etc. You know how in school, teachers don’t do anything against the bullies. This is something similar and it’s even worse because we are all adults in a more “professional” supposedly environment.

Submitted May 15, 2026 at 09:04AM by FlamesFPS https://ift.tt/YidoSMJ

Need a EDC strobe flashlight for self defense

Like the title says, Id like to have a small compact flashlight that has a powerful strobe mode thats able to be used in a single click. I see most flashlights having to cycle through a few clicks before the strobe light is accessible, in the case of an emergency I know seconds are valuable so having a strobe light that can be used in a single click is my ideal preference, as well as being small and compact enough for everyday carry. Of course ideally strong brightness too but with more emphasis on EDC type of light and using the strobe to disable an attacker and get away or to put as much distance between us so something ideally with a strong throw as well.

I know thats a lot of boxes to check off but does anyone have good recommendations?

Submitted May 14, 2026 at 03:18PM by EverGrinningBear https://ift.tt/kA8onj5

why cant I exactly beat burglars to near death?

Dont come at me with some moral bullshit. If a burglar breaks into my house there is no „excessive self defense“. Im gonna beat them with something as long as it takes until I feel safe enough.

I heard there were thiefs/break-ins in my neighborhood but because I live one of the most cucked countries of all time (germany) all Im supposed to do is „run away and call the police“ (<- slave mindset) cant even own a fucking gun here without going through 20 hoops.

I should be able to blast those retards who decide to rob me. Its assumable that they will try to kill me. But no, all I can do is knock them down to the ground at most and run away. Not even continue beating them with a stick without a risk of going to jail. What is this pussy shit I fucking hate it here.

Submitted May 12, 2026 at 07:29PM by DschoBaiden https://ift.tt/jEMIDdm

Protection as a middle aged guy

Ill be honest, im out of my prime. Not as strong or though as I used to be. But due to certain changes in my neighborhood, i need to have a self--defense plan. Any tips?

Submitted May 11, 2026 at 10:22PM by AddyH88 https://ift.tt/Ux3EzAw

how to beat up someone real good?

so I want to rescue a friend of mine from her abusive parents and today her cousin saw her texts about our plans of me rescuing her and now her cousin tells her that he will beat me up which means I have to beat him up to rescue her! I have pepper spray but wanna know what are the other options for fighting good,any weapon recommendations and fighting techniques?

Submitted May 11, 2026 at 03:52AM by BreakDue8198 https://ift.tt/YBZmHyN

Knife attacks are on the rise in France too !

Les conséquences d'attaques au couteau sur le corps , type d'armes utilisées , blessures les plus fréquentes , un article tres bien étayé

https://www.kamouflages.com/blogs/attaques-au-couteau/attaque-au-couteau-consequences-physiques-zones-touchees-et-realite-d-une-agression

Submitted May 10, 2026 at 11:40AM by kamouflages https://ift.tt/2kKJ7pb

Boxing or MT for Self-Defense as an average sized male?

I am about 5'10-5'11 (somewhere here) and fluctuate between 185-205 naturally. I am wondering what is better between MT or Boxing as someone who has really only experience doing BJJ/Grappling. The main thing I am wondering is against a much bigger opponent hypothetically (6'2+) it seems risky to get close/in-range for boxing strikes which intuitively leads me to believe that MT would be better in terms of being able to strike and not get in close.

Albeit, there seems to be an equally good counter argument that fighting an opponent much taller to you implies they have greater reach so maybe closing distance would be better. What are y'alls thoughts on this?

Submitted May 10, 2026 at 01:24PM by Sunbro888 https://ift.tt/zDI6YiZ

Getting threats from bullies to be jumped again

I want to learn how to fight, have no money to buy classes. I want to learn by myself. I need to know how to defend myself.

Im 16,turning 17 in july, i weigh like 60kg if that helps, im about roughly 5'5 and i want to be able to defend myself

How do i get stronger?

Submitted May 10, 2026 at 11:18AM by retsrded https://ift.tt/FvosLh9

What can I do to feel safer if Im going to court? A guy robbed me

Long story short, 1.5 years ago I was exiting the club in my city and I got jumped by 4 shitheads who were younger than me. One of them was the main guy and he threatened me with knives, knuckle dusters and pepper spray.

I complied, gave him the money and then went to the police. I got a letter some time ago that there is a court hearing in my case, and im summoned as a witness. In my country the defendant receives almost the same letter as me, so he knows my name. I highly doubt he is intelligent enough to dox me, judging by how the robbery had went and how many mistakes he'd made and how I'd played him in a way.

The thing is I live in a ~million people city which is not really that big, there is a small chance that he might see me on a street. If he's dumb enough to fight me or try to kill me, he'll most likely do it with some other guys, so in this event I'm just gonna run.

If he'd do it solo, Im gonna try everything to avoid any confrontation with him anyway. What is the best thing I can do to feel safer? I work out and Im quite fit, I've never been in a fight and I dont know how to fight. I have strong pepper spray from fox but it's not always enough to stop someone, also it doesnt work right away.

also, I've always struggled with anxiety and adhd which is not helpful in this case

Submitted May 10, 2026 at 08:56AM by Swimming_Dick8388 https://ift.tt/h04iTDS