Would say it's immature to get into fights as an adult or are there times when you should fight if someone has disrespected you?

Hi just venting at the moment don't know whether this is gonna make sense. I would say I don't like fighting never have case in point whenever I ve got into a fight as a kid I got choked out 😂 by someone bigger and stronger than me or attacked in a group I was bullied throughout school for not fighting. it's really knocked my confidence as an adult as these attacks happened for no reason I was almost killed in one strangled to death by a group of ten don't know why. I had a bunch of abuse thrown my way today and it reminded me of what happened when I was a kid I think it's PTSD or something I almost became violent with how someone was speaking to me my question is as an adult should you ever get into a fist fight for someone mocking you is there ever a time when someone has crossed the line and you ve had the urge for violence?How do you remain calm in these situations how do you not freeze with fear I feel like a rabbit in the head lights when it comes to confrontation

Submitted May 20, 2020 at 10:33PM by Andrewvitale184 https://ift.tt/3e4Il4z