Wednesday, October 23, 2024

How to be brave and aggressive in right situation

Read the writing down below. Then you'll understand the situation more clearly. (My English isn't good. Please figure out a little bit) I'm a 19 years old. Skinnier and look much younger than the guys of my own age. I'm a naturally calm person, try to avoid problems. I hate to say this but i know I'm physically weaker than most of the people for my physical shape. A few days before an incident happened which made me think about everything. I was in a bus in the window sit. A man sat beside me and spitted outside through the window. As he was spitting i said ' watch it ' in a very good way, not rudely. But this guy took it personally. He asked me if the spit fell on me. I said no. Then, he said 'then why did you say 'watch it'? ( now, i don't know about the rest of the world, but the country that i live in it's very very normal to say 'watch it'. Especially, in that situation, i didn't say this in an offending way). I said 'what are you taking about? I didn't say it in a rude way'. Then, he told me something and told me to lower my eyes. By this time, i got extremely nervous. A cold chill was in my throat to chest. Got absolutely puzzled and couldn't understand what to say. And then the argument stopped. Now, after coming back to home, for more than a week i can't think of anything other than that. I'm feeling extremely coward. What would have i done if something like this would happen to my family? I can't think of anything other than this and very disturbed when I'm writing this. But even after that incident i kinda realised, i might be weak. But if just became a little aggressive and talk for myself, probably he wouldn't accept his mistake but at least he would stop. And i would not be that coward. But i couldn't be brave there. So, my question is how can i be aggressive in situations when i have to?



Submitted October 23, 2024 at 03:58PM by Ok-Grapefruit-6532 https://ift.tt/KXqhepy

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