Sunday, November 30, 2025

Did I act cowardly in this street confrontation?

I was driving with my younger brother when a car cut me off. I yelled, and the guy followed us and told me to pull over. Three guys were in his car. One of them came to my door, opened it, grabbed my shirt — I kicked him away, then got out of the car. He kept yelling and tried going toward my brother, so I shoved him back. His friends pulled him away, and I didn’t escalate because my brother was with me and they were three.

Now I keep replaying it in my head wondering if I acted cowardly or if I handled it the right way. Did I look weak, or was this normal considering the situation?



Submitted November 30, 2025 at 06:36PM by Lumpy-Acanthisitta25 https://ift.tt/vxD7WfO

How to overcome freezing reaction

Hi I have a question concerning the reactions to danger and I hoped someone on here could help me hopefully. I hope it is okay to post here.

So I have this problem that I react to danger with freezing/fawning, this has been a real problem in the past, it has made me endure situations where I might have had a real fighting chance if I had gotten out of my stupor. I am to some extend trained in self defense as I am a brown belt in karate, even though I am well aware that others are more practical than karate. Still it could have helped me in the situations, I just never even thought about fighting in these situations. To me the main problem is mental. As soon as I am in real danger I freeze, I fawn, for a lack of better words, I submit.

Does anyone have experience/tricks to overcome this? Thank you in advance!!!!!



Submitted November 30, 2025 at 04:11PM by PastPie921 https://ift.tt/QlD4xow

Friday, November 28, 2025

Best shop for all your Muay Thai gear in Bangkok at Super Export Shop

https://youtube.com/watch?v=IToM-qj0UJE&si=3BXxZw0Ayq9DXCjG

Submitted November 28, 2025 at 11:51AM by Beneficial_Ad9405 https://ift.tt/TDVAIWg

Tuesday, November 25, 2025

Do groin strikes really work?

If you kick a man hard



Submitted November 26, 2025 at 01:08AM by OcelotStunning392 https://ift.tt/S04bINn

What body is the best to aim for to look like you can protect yourslf

The title is too short to explain it well. What body build (as in toning, muscular, bodyfat, strong shoulders) that can be achieved without too much time is good for having a "I can defend myself, don't mess with me" look?

I'm 5'11, male, 35 and about 95kgs. Some muscle but probably a little too much body fat too. Should I aim to be as big and heavy as possible (I find my metabolism slowing down and can put on bodyfat much easier now)? Or should I lose bodyfat even though I won't be as big? Should I gain muscle all over or focus hard on arms and shoulders (that's the muscles people take most notice of right)?



Submitted November 25, 2025 at 03:58PM by Kitchen-Beginning-47 https://ift.tt/4LFAI1Y

Monday, November 24, 2025

When a World Champ casually strolls into your Muay Thai class...

https://youtube.com/watch?v=8AjlsSanpfQ&si=WwS4RHZBY5vdpp2N

Submitted November 24, 2025 at 01:03PM by Beneficial_Ad9405 https://ift.tt/FTxK5oH

Saturday, November 22, 2025

How is Krav Maga for self defence?

Lots of criticisms of Krav Maga seem to either misunderstand what its purpose is, or just dislike it because it is Israeli. I don’t really know much about and I’d like to know the opinions of this sub.



Submitted November 22, 2025 at 09:41AM by SnooKiwis9004 https://ift.tt/TmMdSeo

Friday, November 21, 2025

Feddie Haggerty is he ready to take the next step?

https://youtube.com/watch?v=0Huue1aQj74&si=iOn6jlYbBK4rscAA

Submitted November 21, 2025 at 04:01AM by Beneficial_Ad9405 https://ift.tt/DuvgJGd

Thursday, November 20, 2025

What is a high quality body camera for personal use?

Preferably something discreet, but that's not required. But something high quality. Does anyone know?



Submitted November 20, 2025 at 11:23PM by l3arn3r1 https://ift.tt/1beaO6W

Is there even a small chance of success here?

/r/aikido/comments/1p0wagd/is_there_even_a_small_chance_of_success_here/

Submitted November 20, 2025 at 10:05PM by AikidoDreaming111 https://ift.tt/kLArmti

Protection against attacking dogs?

Hi all, I just moved to a neighborhood in a new city that seems more dangerous from a canine perspective than I’m used to. As a pregnant woman, I’ll be even worse-equipped to defend my small dog and myself than usual, and I’d like to start carrying something to protect ourselves.

I can’t handle a gun well-enough, so I was thinking maybe a collapsible baton (ideally small enough to fit in a fanny pack so I don’t look nuts brandishing it), and perhaps pepper spray? I understand a Taser or stun gun would also hurt my dog if there were a fight, so that’s ruled out.



Submitted November 20, 2025 at 08:10PM by Harried-Hedgehog4924 https://ift.tt/pB91kfL

Should I be ashamed of myself?

I'm not a fighter to be honest, I'm weak and more of a “dialogue” person. But a week ago, someone insulted me for no reason. I asked him to apologize, but he didn’t. He started insulting me even more, so I replied, but in a more subtle way.

Then he hit me in the face. I tried to back off, but he pushed me to the ground and used his weight to choke me. I was scared, so I bit him. He still didn’t let go, so as a last resort I forced my finger into his left eye. He finally let me go, and I ran away.

Now I feel like a coward who had to use “dirty moves” to win.

(I just wanted to vent and maybe get some advice.)



Submitted November 20, 2025 at 12:06PM by Snoo-69512 https://ift.tt/hO8KJ3r

Wednesday, November 19, 2025

The Best GUN Takeaway I've Ever Seen! | Full Seminar in 35 minutes

https://youtube.com/watch?v=GIjLQbLpDHc&si=hfMDFwOGkUREKIQC

Submitted November 19, 2025 at 07:37PM by cloudmanguy https://ift.tt/zAtNGqI

Monday, November 17, 2025

Is running someone over if they're attacking you self defense?

https://youtube.com/shorts/xUVjWPOTfUo?si=ZepKWtMlm-Wq46fr

Submitted November 17, 2025 at 01:25PM by average_eevee https://ift.tt/FcgED5O

Rate my de-escalation

Was minding my own buisness when started shouting at me and confronting over my, of all things, jacket i was wearing, i ignored him first but he said it again so i just said 'no' and kept walking, he didn't say anything else.

I'd love to know what you think but a couple things come to my mind after thinking about it

I let my guard down, and that's probably why it happened, i usually try to 'engage' with a location by taking in as much of the sorroundings as possible, doing sherlockian deductions, etc, normally i'm head on a swivel watching anything and everything, i was not like this when it happened and i do not know why, but it's highlighted a problem that i need to work on

I did not have sight of the person, i kept walking, thinking back i think this could have been really bad, what if he had a weapon? there's a big crime problem in my country

This happened broad daylight on a private property, other people were present, did this make the situation 'safer'

Aside from fixing my lack of vigilance, i'm also going to get myself the brightest pocket torch i can find, my brother recently got one that's too big to carry, but i got a direct view of it in my eyes for less then a second, wow it was horrible, it took 10 minutes for the dot in my eye to fully vanish, i might buy a couple from temu and see how good they are.



Submitted November 17, 2025 at 12:34PM by NoCommunication7 https://ift.tt/10lbch4

How do I fight back while being jumped

so the title gets pretty much to the point. I need tips on what to do or at least how to stun them long enough to run. Im not sure how many want to jump me yet but ive been rlly nervous going to sch00l knowing whats gonna happen. im not sure if i can even avoid it since they said theyre “looking for me”. To make it worse these girls wont stop at nothing til they “teach me a lesson” 😕 and i walk alone in the halls as well. please give me any tips or advice on what to do thank you.



Submitted November 17, 2025 at 03:01AM by Groovy_Aliy https://ift.tt/lKun6vx

Sunday, November 16, 2025

Just a boy hitting the pads at Lamai Muay Thai, Koh Samui

https://youtube.com/watch?v=Cq0jxn3gSjs&si=_9peNbBBK7V0yvB0

Submitted November 16, 2025 at 12:09PM by Beneficial_Ad9405 https://ift.tt/Hdrs0LM

Saturday, November 15, 2025

Hey, Is it possible?

Can I learn basic self-defense techniques self taught? It does not have to be much, just enough for me to get by. Like maybe a few methods.



Submitted November 15, 2025 at 10:47PM by ackercarrol6671 https://ift.tt/1OS6Gwp

Stopped a violent attack. Did I do the right thing?

I saw someone on the ground being ferociously beaten by another person. I immediately ran up to them and pepper sprayed the attacker, which caused him to stop the attack and flee. The assaulted person was fine. After that I called the police.

I think I did the right thing for my conscience. If I hadn't done that, It would haunt me now. but It still bothers me...Was it the absolutely right thing to do? Should I have just called the police instead and not get involved? What if the attacker had had weapons on him? Did I expose myself to a lot of unnecessary danger? What was the truly right way to act?

If I ever see something like this happening again, should I get involved? Under what circumstances? I think I would just call the police and not get involved if there was more than one of perpetrator. How would other people act in this situation?

This is very complex and I can't seem to reach any conclusion. What do you think?



Submitted November 15, 2025 at 06:53AM by Realistic_Hour_1695 https://ift.tt/VrCnvP9

Friday, November 14, 2025

Ideas for personal alarm with flashlight

Hello self defense community. I live in a place with wild dogs, large cats, and other assorted creatures with claws and/or fangs. I like to ride my motorcycle here and sometimes find myself on dark roads at night (I have trouble putting my toy away even when the sun goes down).

I’d like to get a personal alarm with a legitimately bright flashlight (say, over 1,000 lumens) which would be effective at scaring off animal predators. I’ve so far found a bunch of alarms with some LED lights, but not bright enough in my opinion. The best I’ve seen is the Ledlenser K6R Safety. It looks almost perfect except for two flaws; it’s not waterproof and it’s only 400 lumens.

I realize that p3pper spray is an option, but it would be harder to aim at night. I’d need a light anyway. I’m thinking a noisemaker plus light is a better option.

Any recommendations? Thank you!



Submitted November 15, 2025 at 12:08AM by Cassietgrrl https://ift.tt/imZcPwn

Let it slide, when somebody Talks bad behind your back?

Hey guys, I have a difficult situation here. Right now, I live in a boarding house for one year. I live here since 3 months and with 8 other people. There are 4 Vietnamese guys, 3 spanish and me. I live with that one vietnamese guy, who is a quiet, video game addicted, obere guy. I always felt bad for him, because he seemed isolated. But he is still confident and has a big ego. He also has a Problem with the spanish guys. One day he poured water onto one spanish guy's bed. Another guy saw him, that he did that but he still denied it, even though he was the only one with a motive and everybody knew he was guilty. Regardless I still behaved nicely to him, bacause he is my roommate and I wanted to keep a good relationship with him. Then I found out, that he keep talking shit behind my bad with the other vietnamese guys. For example he told the others that I wanted another vietnamese guy to go back to his country. The others believed him and I had to convince them that he is lying. The last time he talked shit behind my back I confronted him with that. He denied it again and just lied straight into my face. Now he talked shit behind my back again and I dont know how to react. Some people adviced me to not let that slide by confronting him again with that and if he would denie it again, I should slap him in the face. How do you guys think about that? What should I do?



Submitted November 14, 2025 at 07:04PM by Pristine_Income8617 https://ift.tt/ZwVvADk

What are my odds of success?

If I am at my workplace and a gun carrying perp is walking between my computer racks or our cubicles, how are my odds of success if I roll a chair into him, jump him down as he is off balance, then stab both of his eyes with the screwdrivers I have been holding (easy to push a roller chair while holding screwdrivers)?



Submitted November 14, 2025 at 07:01PM by holsteiners https://ift.tt/sUWvY67

How would I use such a dagger

https://ift.tt/hj96Qvg

Submitted November 14, 2025 at 12:32PM by Emergency_Sun_5209 https://ift.tt/XsYOqVp

Little boy's First Muay Thai session in Bangkok

https://youtube.com/watch?v=DthdVi_zB_g&si=mc5mq0ij_4pdH46H

Submitted November 14, 2025 at 10:30AM by Beneficial_Ad9405 https://ift.tt/onfLJHV

Thursday, November 13, 2025

Muay Thai self defense with World Champion Jon Haggerty

https://youtube.com/watch?v=kqzWum595rU&si=wfaephHgY_xva3y4

Submitted November 13, 2025 at 11:50AM by Beneficial_Ad9405 https://ift.tt/1jilzFI

Tuesday, November 11, 2025

Muay Thai techniques with World Champion Rav “Soultrain” Sidhu

https://youtube.com/watch?v=JW0Pfy62VIo&si=gAfZWim-WoDCI9cz

Submitted November 11, 2025 at 11:39AM by Beneficial_Ad9405 https://ift.tt/wT9xId3

Monday, November 10, 2025

Would this defense spray still work?

https://ift.tt/vAExzT0

Submitted November 10, 2025 at 10:47PM by TommyBoy250 https://ift.tt/D0Wgi8X

Just had the weirdest dream

If someone were to poke me with a needle and inject me with an unknown substance, in public suddenly without my consent, would I be justified in using physical force to stop the assailant if they have begun to flee the scene.

Weird dream but my dream was that I was woken up and stuck with what seemed to be an epi pen or something and then I freaked out and pinned the assailant down demanding to know what it was. Then she said she was calling the police for me pinning her down. I woke up and thought, would that have been lawfully just.

Blessed this was only a dream lol



Submitted November 10, 2025 at 10:02PM by hilltopper444 https://ift.tt/IbgkqiX

Sunday, November 9, 2025

Flashlight recommendations needed

I live in my RV and would like to ask for a tactical flashlight for Christmas. I5 seems that 500-1000 lumens is recommended for self-defense purposes. But I’m seeing a ton on Amazon claiming 10,000-99,999 lumens, which I’m pretty sure is bunk lol.

Can anyone recommend a decent self-defense/tactical flashlight under, say, $50? Bonus points for rechargeable, but batteries are fine since I won’t be using it constantly. Thanks!

Edit to add: I don’t plan to wield it as a close-range weapon—I mainly just want something that will deter and possibly disorient your run-of-the-mill troublemaker.



Submitted November 10, 2025 at 01:19AM by mcdisney2001 https://ift.tt/rKf1R4F

Saturday, November 8, 2025

You vs. 10 little people

For real do you think if ten midgets (little people) tried to attack you, you could take them down bare hands? Asking for a friend. It’s literally not a joke question it’s a true battle in my friend group.



Submitted November 08, 2025 at 07:16PM by buffchickendipp https://ift.tt/XsT19zd

Friday, November 7, 2025

What percentage of people can properly defend themselves?

Having done bjj for a while, I have realized first hand just how lethal the upper belts are, and how they are absolutely capable of taking a life if they ever were to need to. This goes for other martial arts as well such as Judo, Muay Thai, and kickboxing.

This had me thinking about everday people, and just how unskilled the average person is. It makes me question just how many people are vulnerable to a self-defense attack and would not know how to defend themselves properly.

If you had to take a guess, what percentage of the worlds population do you believe are skilled enough to successfully defend themselves if they were to ever need to in a self-defense situation? What do you believe are the reasons for your guess?



Submitted November 07, 2025 at 03:50PM by Ok_Benefit9326 https://ift.tt/gTZIBcp

Thursday, November 6, 2025

Seeking advice for 35 year old guy

Hi all, I’m a middle aged overweight tall guy, and I’ve recently decided to get in shape, however I also feel like I should probably be getting some self defense lessons due to my current job. What might be good for a guy of my stature? (6’2, 350 lbs). I know some have said judo but I’m looking more for something that is good for legs. Thanks.



Submitted November 07, 2025 at 01:38AM by HubertTubertGoobert https://ift.tt/yYPjSml

Wednesday, November 5, 2025

is it recommended to slap someone in self defense

If i was walking down a street alone and someone starts catcalling me and eventually grabs my arm to stop me what would be the best course of action? (I am weaker than the person grabbing me)



Submitted November 05, 2025 at 03:09PM by Sweet-Ad-5344 https://ift.tt/lx5mQUr

Tuesday, November 4, 2025

How to defend against getting strangled from behind like this?

I was watching No Country for Old Men today. It’s a famous movie but to anyone unfamiliar with it, the scene in question features a police officer getting strangled from behind using a pair of handcuffs. It’s on Youtube if you want to see it. Now I first saw that a few years ago and again today, and I really wondered: Is there anything the police officer could’ve done? Surely he could’ve fought back a little better right? But he also didn’t seem to have any way to strike back.

I don’t know much about self defense, so I thought I‘d ask reddit for some thoughts.



Submitted November 04, 2025 at 09:12AM by TraditionalVoice83 https://ift.tt/jnyY795

Sunday, November 2, 2025

Taser/mace combo that’s water resistant?

I am looking for a taser/mace combo that’s water resistant for my girlfriend for when she goes on walks in the neighborhood. We’ve had a few encounters with creeps around here. We live in a rainy area, and I’d like to find her something where she only has to carry one device on her.

I bought her a 3-in-1 taser/flashlight/mace combo from Guard Dog Security, but upon checking the reviews, it isn’t water resistant and stops working in the rain, plus other reviews say it stops working after a while. I’m looking for something of better quality but can’t find much.

Is there anything out there?



Submitted November 02, 2025 at 05:58PM by Vespura https://ift.tt/al18zpB

It's rare that I make self defense tools but when I do...

https://youtu.be/mhc6XMNzmMs?si=F8bGmur2bneq3dwq

Submitted November 02, 2025 at 04:35PM by SZT3 https://ift.tt/qtVPj7s

Saturday, November 1, 2025