Do you consider this to be self defense?

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Submitted January 31, 2026 at 05:56PM by Excellent_Gas5220 https://ift.tt/tshag6T

Yesterday bully tried trapping me in bus seat. Read the rest⬇️

School won't do anything, but yesterday bully got up from his seat and sat with me to intimidate me, in the middle of the bus ride. Everyday he gets closer to making physical contact. I've never fought and would prefer not too, but I think he gonna try something soon.

I yelled at him and he eventually got up. How can I defend myself sitting down, while he is sitting down too?

Submitted January 31, 2026 at 01:54PM by sweatycheese_08 https://ift.tt/vnOpjt0

Plastic Bag Smother Self Defense

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Submitted January 31, 2026 at 12:52PM by Significant_Award962 https://ift.tt/4nx96dy

help me explain to people self defense

I had a situation where 2 people were trying to fight me. In a prior incident i struck one of them in self defense. Although i initiated the action i was under reasonable belief of imminent threat. I went to a lawyer to discuss this but evidently something stuck the lawyer so they started to ego fight me and macho me out. I was trying to discuss with them the legality of self defense but they kept saying that since i struck first then i was at fault and the other instances they harassed me were because of my actions so i am at fault. I kept trying to explain that although I struck first they were 2 centimeters away from my face for over a minute with their chest up. i can reasonably assume a confrontation will happen because there is no reason a person should stay like that towards another person unless they were trying to kiss them which in my case would be sexual assault. they kept trying to berate me. why does this happen? is this a case of some people will never understand?

Submitted January 27, 2026 at 11:51AM by Lazy_Desk1840 https://ift.tt/vdI5J3c

Want to learn self-defense. Confused between Boxing and Krav Maga

Hey everyone, I’m thinking of learning self-defense seriously, mainly for real-life safety and confidence not for competition or showing off.

I’m confused between Boxing and Krav Maga.

From what I understand: Boxing seems great for striking, fitness, reflexes and staying calm under pressure.

Krav Maga is more street-oriented and focuses on real-world situations.

My goal isn’t to get into fights. It’s to be able to protect myself and get out of dangerous situations if needed. For people who’ve trained in either (or both): Which one is more practical for real-life self-defense? Is boxing alone enough? Does Krav Maga actually work in real situations, or does it depend a lot on the gym/instructor? Would love honest opinions and personal experiences.

I would have to learn it my own..

Submitted January 27, 2026 at 10:06PM by ompossible https://ift.tt/PI165ns

Globe knot with billiard ball inside. How useful would this be?

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Submitted January 27, 2026 at 08:36PM by Padenormous https://ift.tt/BK4GST7

I think this form of kung fu is VERY effective for self defense.

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Submitted January 27, 2026 at 05:09PM by StripMallMaster https://ift.tt/yifBcZC

I have questions no one has answers

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Submitted January 26, 2026 at 03:19PM by Electric-Dance-5547 https://ift.tt/d8f1MAm

Are we allowed?

Are women allowed to have poison fingernail polish?

Can we get a martial art with a pair of tweezers?

Submitted January 26, 2026 at 02:58PM by Fancy_Enthusiasm_683 https://ift.tt/zO63ltn

Some observations on learning self-defense

I posted this in response to a question by a small woman asking how to get better able to protect themselves and I was asked to create a separate post with this answer. ———-

Probably the most useful skill set to start with is how to notice problems early and avoid getting into situations. It does not always work but it is the best first answer.

The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker is a very useful book to help with this.

Jeff Cooper’s Principles of Personal Defense is short and has many useful insights. His perspective is very male and he is a strong proponent of being armed, kind of the opposite of de Becker in that way, but Cooper’s perspective is quite useful.

As for physical skills:

You have less size and, unless you are very fit, significantly less upper body strength than most of the aggressors you are likely to face, so you either need a weapon or a significant skill advantage if it gets physical.

The fastest effective thing you can learn for physical self defense is to use pepper spray.

There are some methods you can learn in a good self defense class which can surprise and hurt an opponent quickly and give you a chance to try to escape, but they depend on surprise and some luck.

Beyond that you are left with putting in effort to learn skills which take time to acquire enough proficiency. These skills can be with or without weapons.

Judo is easy to find most places because it is an Olympic sport and is generally well taught and inexpensive. Almost no one is teaching Judo to make money. It is often taught in universities which might allow the public to train there, recreational centers, etc. You may need to put in some effort to find what is available in your area.

Judo will teach you how to deal with someone bigger trying to use force against you. You will learn to fall safely. If you can use a throw in class against a person who has trained to resist with skill, it will be much easier to do against a person without skill.

If you throw a person in real life (not on a mat) and they don’t know how to fall safely, this will probably damage them more than any punch or kick you are likely to deliver in a fight. A strong person with weight behind it can throw a hard punch if they do it right, but it takes a good measure of skill, strength and timing to hit harder than a fall. :)

BJJ is good after you are already on the ground, but being on the ground with someone who is likely to weigh more and have more strength and aggression is not good. It is a good skill to have if you are already there, but skills which can be used while standing and that let you run away are much better than being stuck on the ground.

Boxing and kickboxing or Muay Thai are all good ways to learn striking and how to move. Learning elbow and knee strikes are especially helpful because they are effective and do less damage to you and they can be used even at very close range.

Punches are very good for range and hitting hard, but without gloves there is serious risk of hurting your hands when hitting the head or other places where bones are hard (like if they block with elbows or shoulders) and being effective with fists against targets below the neck is challenging with opponents who are bigger than you are.

Submitted January 26, 2026 at 07:11AM by storyinpictures https://ift.tt/HCPTIhO

Dear self defense fuds

sometimes you actually need to defend yourself. there will be times where your unable to tuck your Wang in between your legs and cowar off into the sunset. sometimes you will be cornered, they could be faster than you and so many other situations where running away isnt an option. your asics running shoes , pink pull pin alarm and new york id aren't gunna cut it. you need to arm yourself or at rhe very minimum have a lethal/less lethal combo. like using pepper spray first then using a knife or gun if it fails. I'm tired of seeing these people in the sub crap on others self defense setups just because they dont only have a pistol to use and are super proud of their ability to run away thinking its gunna save them everytime until they meet the version of Usain bolt that isnt into professional sports but rather YN activities

I know im Gunna lose karma . The proud cowards ain't gunna like this one and thats fine

Submitted January 25, 2026 at 02:22PM by Old-Fisherman5690 https://ift.tt/mY1fo9v

Sabre red vs Sabre 3 in 1? Gel vs spray?

Hello, after looking into pepper spray a bit I’ve seen a lot of people saying Sabre is a good option especially Sabre red. However I saw a few people suggest the Sabre 3 in 1 with tear gas but I can’t seem to find many opinions on it specifically, what would you guys suggest? Also is gel or spray better?

Thank you!

Submitted January 25, 2026 at 01:02AM by Representative-Soil2 https://ift.tt/dvsAQE0

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Submitted January 24, 2026 at 05:20PM by Old-Fisherman5690 https://ift.tt/Dc7EYWI

Got a new byrna

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Submitted January 24, 2026 at 04:51PM by Old-Fisherman5690 https://ift.tt/S6hHJWD

Got my new pepper ball launcher for my car today!

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Submitted January 24, 2026 at 09:16AM by Different_Web5318 https://ift.tt/5FvjGrQ

School Fight tips and tricks

Im in High school, I doubt it's ever gonna happen but if there's ever a situation where I will have to fight and I can't run (Which is what I originally would do) what are some dirty tricks i could use. My original idea would be to probably attack them with some sort of heavy book or a pen or maybe throw dirt, Just do something then try find an opening to run

Submitted January 22, 2026 at 11:36PM by d3ltaiscool https://ift.tt/9qVn8yh

I haven't been in a fight since I was 12

I haven't been in a fight since I was 12. I'm 19 now. 12 and prior I've been in a couple of fights (not that many) and they mostly included grappling, kicking, slapping and such. I've never been punched in the face full force. What are the likelihoods of me winning if I get in a fight now?(Not sports-like) And how could I win?

Submitted January 22, 2026 at 03:39PM by IllLimit703 https://ift.tt/am2zUNo

I've had two experiences and they trouble me a little

I've had two experiences one was I walking and was really focused on my phone then when I put my phone down instantly a crazy dude appeared right to my face I panicked and I don't know why but I put my fist up, (but I was scared as hell, I was praying the crazy dude doesn't do anything) and luckily he walked away, there was someone on the other side of the road who shouted me (you should have punched him) I didn't say anything but I was scared shitless.

Second scenario I was walking with my Home girl and we were waiting at the bus stop I saw a crazy dude shouting from the other side of the road and he was crossing I instantly pulled her to the side and suddenly the crazy guy stood I placed myself in front of her but I was scared doing it we briefly had a stare off (like before I was praying that nothing happens) and again nothing happened. What am afraid of if something happened I would have frozen and not reacted or threw a punch

(before anyone says do a martial art.) I did Mma for three four years, but I was afraid of sparring I remember there was someone my instructor would make spar with and he knew I was afraid and he enjoyed it. Not to say but I remember one time where I did actually make him work for it I just got in and said F it. It was the only time I ever dominated in a spar but that was once.

Submitted January 22, 2026 at 02:12PM by ProfessionalEarly365 https://ift.tt/dinFQGT

Best self defense spray

Hi! I am a woman and would like to be proactive in my safety. I was thinking about putting some type of pepper spray in my purse, but I’ve seen people say that you should use other stuff like spray paint or like a bug spray. What do people suggest? I want something that I can just keep in my purse or my car, any suggestions help. Thank you so much!

Submitted January 21, 2026 at 06:03PM by Mission-Opposite-884 https://ift.tt/yEFI2vH

Self Defense In asset protection

Hello everyone, recently I had an interview with Home Depot for asset protection, basically going undercover catching shoplifters. I wanted some tips for self-defense legally and physically, if I was to get the job. Oh, and I live in California. Thank you :)

Submitted January 21, 2026 at 11:38AM by Dense-Lake-2034 https://ift.tt/T0ZbNBj

What type of martial arts would be good for someone in their 30s?

Self defense purposes and confrontation training

Submitted January 19, 2026 at 01:21PM by RedditCensorss https://ift.tt/Gxpc4vQ

What is the best self defense technique for a woman?

I want to take self defense classes but have no idea where to start/what to do. I'm relatively short (1.60F) and average weighted. I want to at least learn how to throw a punch and defence myself in bad situations. Or at least protect myself when someone is beating me in a situation. What classes can I take?

Submitted January 18, 2026 at 12:04PM by PastTea165 https://ift.tt/5rOqTW2

Help decide on what type of pepper spray to use

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Submitted January 18, 2026 at 09:26AM by HovercraftBroad2018 https://ift.tt/BpDrCH4

Common criticisms of Krav Maga are they fair or not?

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Submitted January 17, 2026 at 07:06PM by GavrielMora https://ift.tt/sUfzXg4

Martial arts for a Small Teenager who's gotten beat up by bigger guys

I am currently a teenager who wants to look into martial arts for discipline and self-defence. In all honesty, before a year ago I was quite an asshole lol. I was full of myself and overconfident even though I am small and don’t look my age and I am a late bloomer (I still haven’t hit puberty).

I got a huge reality check when I got attacked and pretty much beaten up on a bus by random kids my age that I didn’t know who were looking for a fight. I didn’t defend myself because I was scared.

It’s been a year since then and I never want that to happen again. I want to become tougher so people stop thinking of me as a weakling and so I can take on people bigger than me.

I’ve researched and thought maybe I should try Lethwei since it’s my ethnicity’s national sport, but I’m open to suggestions.

I would have to pay for it myself, I only make $88 a week, so finding a teacher would cost a bit. It would be good if it was easy to learn on YouTube

Submitted January 16, 2026 at 10:09AM by d3ltaiscool https://ift.tt/qOCKG07

Best self defense tool! I make these, pm if interested!

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Submitted January 16, 2026 at 09:55AM by Rn_tools https://ift.tt/K2ikTuQ

probaly not the right subreddit but Am I wrong (i feel like it)

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Submitted January 16, 2026 at 04:54AM by Relevant-Low-2849 https://ift.tt/CRlomtz

How good is 20k lumen flashlight for SD?

Dumb question I'm sure but here we go haha.. 20k lumen flashlight? Would it actually do anything or would someone 20ft away from you just not be phased and continue their trip toward you? I was gonna do 20k lumen for my car and pepper spray on my person while I'm out for my runs.

I sometimes park at the beach and you never know whats up so figured at night could use the flashlight for any weirdos doing weird things / coming my way. Wouldn't be used like a gun of course just like a warning light and if they continue then I'm out of there haha.

Submitted January 15, 2026 at 03:05AM by Odd-Low5498 https://ift.tt/YTFwvCm

Training advice needed

So I have a thin build have started working out at gym recently wanted some guidance regarding which style to pick up as a self-defense style.

I want to be able to hold my ground and defend myself if a 1v1 fight breaks out.

Any kind of channel or forum for the same that might help is much welcome.

Submitted January 14, 2026 at 10:30AM by MrMonke1205 https://ift.tt/IEu9neB

Awesome new self defense book out!

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Submitted January 14, 2026 at 01:14AM by FateInHaze_Re-Pac https://ift.tt/TfZdkI3

Best Self Defense Martial Arts Arts Between Kickboxing and MMA

I really want to start getting into fighting as a mid-20s male. I know this probably gets asked a lot and sounds naive but I want to maximize survival, strength, and fitness. Maybe even have a little fun. Which self defense martial is the best?

I’m narrowing between Kickboxing/Muay Thai and or MMA (Jiu Jitsu) primarily. I have hear of grappling and Krav Maga but I more interested in the former. I’m open to whatever yields the best fighting results though.

I know I’m really naive go easy on me, I used to do boxing for one year in high school and took a boxing course one year in College, I really want up my strength and self defense this year. Thanks in advance!

Submitted January 13, 2026 at 08:31PM by new_grad_who_this https://ift.tt/FS8dMHG

Looking for good self-defense YouTube channels

I’m interested in learning how to defend myself, but my parents won’t allow me to train in boxing or any combat sports for now. I’m not looking to get into fights or act tough I just want to be able to protect myself if something happens.

Does anyone know any legit YouTube channels that focus on practical self-defense, awareness, and basic techniques for real-life situations (street scenarios, de-escalation, escaping, etc.)?

Submitted January 13, 2026 at 09:32AM by Pristine_Glass1115 https://ift.tt/pD3ySsh

Is it chicken to use pepper spray?

Yesterday I was at the skate park when a young child on a scooter went right in front of me and there was no avoiding contact. The parent got extremely mad, even though I tried helping their child up. The dad threw his hat on the floor, threw his jacket on the floor, bald his fist up and came straight for me yelling “I’m gonna knock your teeth out.” He out weighed me by a good 80 pounds of muscle and was a very big dude. I’m 5 foot seven135 . In my pocket I had knife and a can of pepper spray. I chose to use the pepper spray and it was a direct shot. However, a little bit of the mist hit me in the eyes as well as I did not get out of the way fast enough. The direct shot did not incapacitate the man immediately, and I had to punch my way through it. After 10 seconds he was done from the pepper spray. My question is, is it chicken to use pepper spray like that? I in no way wanted to fight anybody… the guy said he was gonna knock my teeth out. I didn’t know what to do. So I picked the less lethal option. What do you guys think?

Submitted January 12, 2026 at 03:26PM by Captain_Tubesceamer https://ift.tt/HI1AGWf

Best Ammo for Self-Defense

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Submitted January 10, 2026 at 10:10PM by ammodotcom https://ift.tt/yrOo3ZP

What makes people suddenly become interested in personal safety equip

I never thought much about personal safety beyond basic awareness until my neighborhood experienced a string of break ins last month. Nothing violent, just property crimes that left everyone feeling uneasy. Suddenly conversations at the coffee shop shifted to security systems, neighborhood watches, and various protection options people were considering.

My neighbor mentioned getting a pepper ball gun as a non lethal deterrent that felt more serious than traditional pepper spray but less extreme than firearms. The logic made sense but it also felt like crossing some threshold into a more defensive mindset. Once you start buying safety equipment, where does it end. Do you become more secure or just more paranoid.

I looked into options out of curiosity and found a surprising range of products designed for home defense without lethal force. Everything from basic models to professional grade equipment, with prices varying based on features and range. Even found wholesale suppliers on Alibaba that cater to this market, which made me realize how common these concerns are globally. My question is whether this kind of preparation actually makes you safer or just feeds anxiety. At what point does reasonable caution become excessive fear. How do you evaluate real risk versus perceived threat. And once you start down the path of defensive equipment, does it change how you see your environment and neighbors. Is feeling safer worth potentially becoming more suspicious.

Submitted January 10, 2026 at 10:54AM by eren_yeager04 https://ift.tt/Q6hCaLM

Used this method when a criminal tried to hurt me

How To Defend Yourself used this when someone tried to beat me up then I learned this method a while back and used it, ended up getting the criminal arrested

Submitted January 10, 2026 at 03:54AM by ImaginaryBaker7486 https://ift.tt/2g5nz4N

Youth Safety and Defense playlist

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Submitted January 06, 2026 at 11:14AM by Derakos_Zrux https://ift.tt/snMOUBK

Byrna launchers

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Submitted January 04, 2026 at 11:30PM by Intrepid-Snow-6359 https://ift.tt/5Qp9NvY

Attacked for the third time

So I've been almost hurt multiple times and in every scenario my attacker has had a gun or knife in each occasion and once was my sister's bf M[35] out of prison and he tried stabbing me because I kicked out of my room and then my car for trying to steal it, and another time guy had brass knuckles and then tried to shoot me down in road rage, and I have been able to defend myself each time but would it have been bad if after disarming each attacker and as a victim would I be justified in protecting myself further by really downing my assault on me or would I be considered a threat, i am 31[M]

Submitted January 04, 2026 at 01:24AM by Xoruku https://ift.tt/EkIdUrB

Anyone here from the UK?

There aren’t that many martial arts instructors in the UK that teach self defence as their main objective. Wondering if anyone knows of any.

Submitted January 03, 2026 at 09:33AM by Vanilla_Kestrel https://ift.tt/LK3QBuy

Safety Advice for petite woman

I am a young smaller woman looking for safety advice. Previously I have been followed to my apartment and assaulted by a homeless man. My apartment is in a college town. I have to leave for work at 4:30 am. To get to the parking garage I have to cross an empty unlit street and there is no one up in the garage at this time. The garage is open to anyone without needing to scan in. My apartment won't give out the courtesy officers phone number, which goes to one town police officer. Any safety tips for the street or in the garage? Is mace effective? Thank you!

Submitted January 03, 2026 at 12:55AM by Spirited-Midnight313 https://ift.tt/wb3qJ5V

Looking for a pen that will help in self defense

Any recommendations? (Excluding Tactical pens)

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