Friday, January 31, 2025

How to deal with fear? I wanna stop being a pussy.

I don't know how to start it... But growing up I was always weak. I was picked on growing up. I am so afraid of confrontation. Like even verbal. If someone raised their voice at me I freeze like a dear on headlights. I wanted to learn boxing and other things to get confident in myself. But it's expensive and I'm getting old every day I'm 24 now. I'll be 25 in July. And in mind unless I became a pro boxer or something(I know that is stupid... 😅) I won't be safe. Forget physical... Even verbal confrontation makes me freeze... I am such a pussy. Now walking is good and all... But it feels shitty and not to forget it's embarrassing. I don't want to get into relationship because I think how will I protect her and even what will she think... That her man was afraid in this situation. I really need help this is eating.



Submitted January 31, 2025 at 03:17PM by Sketches558 https://ift.tt/ZHSyz7L

Self defense tools

What's a good tsa approved product for self defense ?????????



Submitted January 31, 2025 at 09:39AM by Terrible_Nerve_5045 https://ift.tt/VLQJBDq

Thursday, January 30, 2025

Is it important to train on getting hit? If so, how?

(Before sending this post I gotta say, I'm so sorry for any grammar/vocabulary mistake I make writing this. English isn't my first language and I've been working for the past 9 hours, so my brain is a bit melted. Also, I'm writing this having in mind that first course of action is preventing, then avoiding, then complying, and finally striking, and my post is about the last one of the steps.)

Hey guys, I've been thinking for a couple of days now about something. There are different layers in self defense, being the first and most obvious one to comply, give belongings and avoid contact. Then, depending on situation, one could just run or even strike and run. I believe that's why in this subreddit, all of the discussions are about how to strike and what to train to strike, because it's the most complex of all the steps in my opinion.

Even in self defense training, at least in my experience, they teach how to take certain actions in order to reduce or incapacitate the attacker, so when you get hit training those things, I don't believe you're getting hit in a realistic scenario. Even if you train boxing, BJJ, or most of martial arts, you don't get hit like you would in the streets. The most realistic way of getting hit with that premise would be Muay Thai, but I believe that when they spar they ease on elbows and knees (for obvious reasons). When I say "realistic way of getting hit" I'm having in mind bare knuckle punches and elbows/knees, because when you get in this kind of scenario, you don't get to ask the perpetrator to put on gloves or anything.

Anyways, I don't know if it's necessary or even if it's something that you can get trained on, but in my opinion, when you have to get into it, it's difficult to be prepared to receive the kind of hits that happen usually in real scenarios. Apart from weaponry related strikes, is it important to train getting hit in more real scenarios? And if so, how would you or how have you?



Submitted January 30, 2025 at 03:12PM by Ok-Entrepreneur7681 https://ift.tt/eadVUw3

Tuesday, January 28, 2025

Doubts about pepper spray

I've been carrying pepper spray over the last 2 years, as i have seen it defeating melee weapons and multiple attackers, i've also seen some cases where it fails to stop a threat, wich has made me doubt about it's effectiveness

I currently have a "Mace brand personal model" that i always carry on my right pocket so i have quick access to it, it meets all the requirements to be as efrective as possible: flip-top, 1.4% major capsaicine, stream pattern, i would ratter have a pom mk1 but Mace it's the only decent brand on my country

So do i need some fighting skills, muscle memory to deploy it and use it or can i just spray and run?



Submitted January 28, 2025 at 10:32PM by mizukiyayoibringsjoy https://ift.tt/egOtrZq

The mental side of it.

I have a problem since I was a kid. I have trouble punching someone in self-defense. I am afraid to stand my ground when the situation calls for it.

What good is self-defense theoretical knowledge, when a person runs for the woods instead of taking action? What good are muscles, or watching a self-defense video, when a person consistently FAILS to use any of it, for fear of retaliation or escalation? Even in a desperate, deadly situation, a pepper spray will remain in the pocket, just as a knife will, because the user is too afraid.

Taking martial arts classes? Prohibitively expensive. Also, a bit "too late" for someone over 40 with serious lower back issues.

Suggestions? Solutions? Advice?



Submitted January 28, 2025 at 01:23PM by ibex333 https://ift.tt/r0hWP5j

Looking to learn Movement techniques?

Hi, I’m thinking on beginning to learn how to be a better shooter (specifically rifle). I know there are courses, but I would like to learn more about proper movement and transitioning between stances (from standing to prone), but I have no idea what this is called. I saw one specifically where a person went from standing to prone by putting one leg out, squatting then go to a sit then a prone. (Maybe even rolled backwards?). I know this is probably too advanced, but what is stuff like this called? Anything would be appreciated, thanks!



Submitted January 28, 2025 at 10:04AM by Responsible_Spite123 https://ift.tt/KBxhyYu

whats the best part of the head to hit?

( sorry if is hard to understand, english is not my native language)

so i always think about how i could defend myself in a robbery/fight/bully situation, so i watched some self defense videos, i know some techniques now, but im always asked about the weakest point of the head, im not talking about the the face (chin, eyes, nose) im talking about the skull, I studied some bones and their names but I still don't know which one would be the most effective to hit in a fight



Submitted January 28, 2025 at 04:52AM by soft_edge_lord https://ift.tt/MGD3yJQ

Monday, January 27, 2025

Here is a self-defense survey!

Here is a short self-defense survey! I'd be glad if you participated. Feel free to comment here as well!

https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScNY4JSmASlZnzMatPgtXBybsCpkoFijwVOhsPBrcyWcP7SCw/viewform?usp=header



Submitted January 27, 2025 at 12:25PM by Character_Sugar1510 https://ift.tt/NTQpWOr

Looking for how to videos on making g10 pencil pushers.

Having a hard time finding them on YouTube . If anyone could link me one I’d be greatly appreciative .



Submitted January 27, 2025 at 11:13AM by Still-Ad-5525 https://ift.tt/0vbKWJR

Sunday, January 26, 2025

Self defense advice

Hello, I am a 27 year old woman in a relationship with another woman. The few times we have gone out together we have gotten unwanted/negative attention from men due to homophobia. I’m afraid one day we’re going to have a confrontation with a man who may want to physically hurt us. I’m thinking of taking self defense classes. I always wanted to do some sort of MMA or boxing. Any advice? I know the correct situation is to always run and deescalate but I’m just trying to prepare for the worst case scenario.



Submitted January 26, 2025 at 09:12PM by MelodicGrab4327 https://ift.tt/yzXCbEI

Would Peeing on a Rag and then Flicking it at People be Effective

Maybe more generally speaking, I should ask, is it possible that trying to stink as bad as possible and maybe then work towards being effective as a grappler and using stench as a method of attack/submission be effective for self defense?



Submitted January 26, 2025 at 05:43PM by xenophonsXiphos https://ift.tt/tmfysBp

Saturday, January 25, 2025

Which pepper spray gun is better?

https://ift.tt/XInr4Jx

Submitted January 25, 2025 at 04:54PM by ActuatedProximer https://ift.tt/nOYo6eM

In a fight, where should I land a punch if I want to end a fight?

where should I land a punch to knock someone out? I know a place is the liver but sometimes it’s hard to land a punch past muscle or bones, so is there any other places?



Submitted January 25, 2025 at 03:23PM by Linkin_jak3 https://ift.tt/BNLrfla

The Ukraine knife fight - what can we learn from this?

https://youtu.be/34Dm4Gsy8tA?si=9rOZs1g3F7-z9Njv

Submitted January 25, 2025 at 02:08PM by picklethegrappler https://ift.tt/coq7Bx0

Friday, January 24, 2025

Kyle Rittenhouse BBC Documentary

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WOY1kkKlvR4

Submitted January 24, 2025 at 11:07AM by fhdocs https://ift.tt/8jTCeXP

Wednesday, January 22, 2025

Effective single strike?

What's a strong, effective, quick strike that can be used to end a confrontation in one move? If I trained an oblique kick/stomp to the kneecap, would that one move be enough to protect myself against a single person (assuming no weapons)? What other strikes would be effective?

First time posting here, so thanks for the help.



Submitted January 22, 2025 at 11:26PM by yourmotherondeeznuts https://ift.tt/iBIvE3o

Pepper gel for self defense

I keep getting harassed by aggressive homeless people on the train and on the bus how effective is pepper gel against an attacker who may be high on Fetty and or Meth? I know not to use pepper spray or gel in enclosed spaces and do have a friend who can give me a taste of it so I know exactly what I could be putting people through should I ever have to use it but any real life experience from someone who has been both on drugs and the receiving end would be greatly appreciated I'm not out to maim anybody I just want something besides a knife to carry on me for protection and I'm obviously considering pepper gel.



Submitted January 22, 2025 at 03:31PM by EntireDevelopment413 https://ift.tt/bnNSJyA

Tuesday, January 21, 2025

What to bring to work?

My girlfriend works at a courthouse, and weapons aren’t allowed in. (Even a fork gets questioned sometimes.)

What can I buy her that could protect her without it appearing dangerous to the security guards?

When I can’t drive her, she commutes through public transit and walking. I wish she could carry the typical taser/pepper spray—so I was hoping this sub may have some tips.

Thanks in advance!



Submitted January 21, 2025 at 08:02PM by thosekidsagain https://ift.tt/bzFZpqB

Monday, January 20, 2025

Do you have any experience with knife self-defense training?

Hello self-defense community. I'm planning on doing a blog post/video about the knife and its use for self-defense. Part of it is studying the types of training and volume of training people have with the knife.

I trained Eskrima and Ninjutsu, but a very long time ago. Both taught knife offense and defense and both had live sparring sessions with wooden knives.

It's really hard to find any martial art school that has knife or legitimate weapons training. Especially one that has live sparring. Eskrima is probably the closest to live weapons combat as they put on armor and beat the hell out of each other with sticks. It's pretty awesome and applicable to a real-life situation.

Please feel free to elaborate on your experience or lack thereof. If you trained what did you train and for how long? If you didn't is it because it's hard to find a school or another reason?

Do you have any knife self-defense/combat training?

If yes please note what type.

Do you still currently train self-defense/combat with a knife?

If yes how often?

If no, when was your last training?

Appreciate all who contribute and participate!

View Poll



Submitted January 20, 2025 at 09:05PM by knifezoid https://ift.tt/P9EM0e4

Self defense course

What course is better to learn how to defend myself (22F)? Jiu jitsu, Krav Maga or Wing Tsun? Thank youu



Submitted January 20, 2025 at 01:46PM by babu_periwinkle https://ift.tt/MkGHXOQ

Do you think there are more 1v1 or more multiple attackers scenarios?

I'm asking from the absolute ignorance. I live in a small-ish city with a low crime rate. In 27 years that I've been around, I've never been in a fight, even though I have gone partying over the years. I've seen fights, but they were mostly between groups over some dumb party disagreement. That's why my personal experience is that there are just a few situations where you can get in trouble, and if it's a robbery thing, people who do that usually tend to do it in a more sneaky manner. I also know that this is just my experience, because there are other cities and countries where things work differently.

Anyways, apart from that, I feel like most of the times, when a self defense scenario comes up, it's usually presented as a 1v1 situation, and what to do when, for example, a dude comes up to you and asks you to give him your wallet.

So yeah, do you think there are more 1v1 self defense situations or more gang/group attacks? (Or what's your experience on this subject?)



Submitted January 20, 2025 at 11:16AM by Ok-Entrepreneur7681 https://ift.tt/wxV9Y2E

Sunday, January 19, 2025

non-weapons that can still work as a concealed carry?

I'm currently a college student, and we're prohibited from owning weapons of any kind. I'm also a prime target for bigots due to being transgender, so going without is becoming less reasonable by the day. does anyone know something that's not a weapon, would be reasonable to carry around, but can still win a fight?



Submitted January 20, 2025 at 12:20AM by ladylucifer22 https://ift.tt/4j5nfUb

Feeling on 1 day seminars for those who don’t do MA regularly?

Some people don’t want to do MA regularly, and I totally get that 1 day of training could actually create a false sense of confidence.

But ultimately, isn’t confidence and SOME exposure to skills and a few reps better than nothing?

Only asking because I’ve been doing MA my whole like (TKD and BJJ) and a friends wife wants a SD class for her and a few of her friends. I want to do it but a part of me is also thinking, am I putting them more at risk?



Submitted January 19, 2025 at 04:17PM by SOMFdotMPEG https://ift.tt/bYCOsA3

Thinking of buying self defense accessories. Please suggest a brand.

I know some of the accessories brand like hyperbae, defender ring and InvisaWear but not sure of their quality. Somebody please suggest from where should I buy?



Submitted January 19, 2025 at 01:41PM by Hardeep-Kaur_4 https://ift.tt/at539CK

How to knockout or immobilize a person with a punch/hit?

Maybe hit in the throat or in joints?



Submitted January 19, 2025 at 12:02PM by AweeeWoo https://ift.tt/q6nIZdC

Saturday, January 18, 2025

Friday, January 17, 2025

Poop Self defense technique

LET ME KNOW UR GENUINE THOUGHTS, THX!

The goal here is to sacrifice all dignity for your safety as well as get away from the situation rather than win the fight with strength. They will go scrambling off without wanting to fight you by the end of it.

1. Grab your pants and boxers, slide everything down to apply a powerful shock debuff on your enemy and because this is an AOE attack, it will impact everyone so it works if ur getting jumped too. Probability of working: 97% (other 3% are the weirdo randoms who don't get fazed. hope you won't encounter em').

2.Instantly begin to piss and let it rip as much as you can. This technique is super effective when you pre-prepare the piss to unload before you apply the technique. Now you have the gun ripping towards em' and can instantly shoot the projectile at your rushing enemies to apply further debuffs. Aim for the eyes for vision debuff. They will stop running at this point and be disgusted. 90% run away by this point but step 3 will guarantee it happens. For the ladies, you can buy some items that help with aim I believe, but not too sure.

  1. Grab your ass with your hands and make a false wipe. If your already shitting yourself this technique is FAR more effective and you have extra weaponry on your side. They will absolutely run. If not then pretend-swipes are just as effective and you wanna pick ur boogers in the process while walking slowly towards them in the hopes they will run away like sane people and not wanna mess with you. At worst they will spit at you in disgust and simply walk off mumbling curses.


Submitted January 18, 2025 at 01:41AM by Acceptable-Staff-363 https://ift.tt/DvgmJs5

Are you hesitant to use pepper spray in a real-life situation?

I was considering buying pepper spray for my wife as a self-defense tool, but when we talked about it, she mentioned feeling nervous about whether she’d actually use it if the situation called for it.

That got me thinking—how many others who own pepper spray feel the same way? Do you feel any hesitation about using it? If so, why? Is it a lack of confidence? Fear of escalation? Cross-contamination?

I’m really curious to hear from this community. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!



Submitted January 17, 2025 at 11:25AM by youkick https://ift.tt/n0QeMRX

Thoughts about a distracting question right before striking?

When attack is imminent, and you can’t run away, I would assume a fence position with hands raised in a “I don’t want trouble” position, ask a distracting stupid question and immediately strike so I can escape. Has anyone thought about what they might say?



Submitted January 17, 2025 at 08:20AM by SilverMammoth1696 https://ift.tt/mdx6IU8

Wednesday, January 15, 2025

Stun gun or pepper spray

Which one could be more useful in almost every scenario, talking about damage, how many attackers are and those things



Submitted January 15, 2025 at 03:01PM by Own_Trifle_7120 https://ift.tt/KUxdu8v

Tuesday, January 14, 2025

Where do I go/ what do I learn to protect myself

I’m a 15 year old guy that stands at 5’6 weighing 106. I don’t like the fact I can folded with ease. What do I learn/ where do I go to be able to defend myself from other, potentially much larger, people. I looked at karate and learned it’s a bunch of bs with peace of mind crap more than actual combat.



Submitted January 14, 2025 at 10:51PM by Klutzy-Activity404 https://ift.tt/fWjBNOk

We all carry a cell phone, right?

https://youtu.be/mUbX1jblOYY?si=HbSozGI-bo36jL7f

Submitted January 14, 2025 at 06:50PM by StripMallMaster https://ift.tt/XSY6kbz

Monday, January 13, 2025

What is the best way to reduce damage when receiving a knee stomp?

It is my dads go- to move when angry. I want to minimize damage without fighting back- if I could feign the injury he's less likely to continue



Submitted January 13, 2025 at 08:51PM by Sriracha11235 https://ift.tt/BkVFShP

Legit pepper spray

https://ift.tt/e6l2fOq

Submitted January 13, 2025 at 03:46PM by Own_Trifle_7120 https://ift.tt/mcCuy3x

Mace brand “regular” pepper spray vs “tear-gas enhanced” pepper spray

I’m looking to buy some pepper spray for personal protection and I noticed that Mace brand has a regular pepper spray for $17.99 and a ”tear-gas enhanced” version for $19.99.

Can anyone tell me if one is necessarily better than the other? Are there any drawbacks to getting that “tear-gas enhanced” version besides the fact that it’s $2 extra?

Here are links to the products I’m referring to:

Regular version: https://www.mace.com/products/personal-pepper-spray-neon-pink

Tear-gas enhanced: https://www.mace.com/collections/personal-size-pepper-spray/products/neon-triple-action-personal-pepper-sprays-with-deluxe-keychain

Any advice would be appreciated.



Submitted January 13, 2025 at 08:28AM by PurplePenguin007 https://ift.tt/2kmYS74

Sunday, January 12, 2025

My friend was attacked recently. What could have been done different

She was followed outside of a nightclub to a spot with no cameras. The man punched her in the back of the head and pushed her down the stairs. She never saw the person. Cops couldn't do anything because she didn't know what he looked like.

What could she have done to mitigate this? If she had been with a friend, what could the friend have done in response?



Submitted January 12, 2025 at 10:19PM by Sriracha11235 https://ift.tt/N2ZC3H6

What Is the Best Strategy for “Strike and Flee” Self-Defense?

We should all know the first rule of self-defense is to always avoid conflict.

Step 1: Don’t be an asshole. Step 2: De-escalate. Step 3: Run.

But what if I find myself in a situation where I know that violence or kidnapping is imminent, and I’m not sure if I can outrun the assailant? I’ve never been in a real fight my entire life but I’ve contemplated this situation quite a few times. I believe that my best strategy would be to land a pre-emptive strike to slow down my opponent and run as fast as I can.

But what would that pre-emptive strike look like? What is the best way to immobilize or slow down an opponent in less than 2 seconds? Should I kick my opponent in the shin, the knee or the ankle? Should I stomp on their foot (toes or metatarsal region?)? Should I go for the old fashioned kick to the balls? A push-kick may give me a good head-start but it probably won’t slow them down very much. A punch from me wouldn’t slow them down at all and would probably just boost their adrenaline.

I did a lot of soccer and Taekwando as a kid so kicking is definitely the best option for me, but I’m more interested to hear what advice works best for the general population. IE what would work best for a woman protecting herself from a sexual predator.



Submitted January 12, 2025 at 01:55PM by Pharose https://ift.tt/4VYvdot

Saturday, January 11, 2025

look for advice on home defense.

i live alone in a pretty rough neighborhood. I would like something to defend myself incase of break in, in the middle of the night. I am EXTREMELY adverse to having a gun. Not because of politics, a decade ago i was suicidal, it’s in my genes, i’d like to not have the easy way out sitting around.

So what are my options here? just mace? currently i just have a small aluminum bat with a sock around it. but i dont feel like its enough.



Submitted January 12, 2025 at 12:34AM by Boulderdrip https://ift.tt/0GDuS5Z

Kicking in Winter?

I'm a lifelong martial artist and love the power and distance management kicks allow me, especially low linear kicks. However, I live in the Midwest, where snow and ice is constantly under foot this time of year. How do you feel about kicking in a self-defense situation in the winter? And, more broadly, how do your tactics and technique preferences change depending on the weather?



Submitted January 11, 2025 at 03:44PM by Content_Shoe6040 https://ift.tt/oubAJgc

Friday, January 10, 2025

If I'm not looking for definition, would I be better to put on weight

Hear me out on this one. If my aim is to "look big" to try to deter any attacks in the first place, should I pad myself out with some extra weight even if it is bodyfat?

I'm 5'11 taller than average but build is average at best, probably a little under average. I'm currently about 94kgs which is probably a mix of fat and muscle. Should I bulk up even more so I can "look big"? Since I'm 5'11 I'm wondering if I would "get away" with a little extra weight (compared to a short person who wouldn't)?



Submitted January 10, 2025 at 01:20PM by Kitchen-Beginning-47 https://ift.tt/aLpl2xU

Thursday, January 9, 2025

best tactical flashlight to use for Escrima/Arnis?

Hello all, thanks in advance for your recs!!! I am referring to Filipino stick fighting, so I am not looking for a concealable flashlight, nor any other alternative solution. Basically length, balance and a beveled edge unless you have other suggestions.



Submitted January 09, 2025 at 09:03PM by ned_luddite https://ift.tt/xMT6VmZ

self defense situation while walking dogs- advice please

Hi all,

I was going to post this in the Santa Cruz subreddit because this situation occurred there, but it is probably more appropriate here. I am a fit 52 year old male and I was walking my two large dogs (Dobermans) down towards Seabright beach. I was at the intersection of Seabright and East cliff (just past Days Market). I was headed toward the beach and I stopped at the light to wait for the crosswalk. I noticed a guy on a mtn. bike on the other side of intersection also waiting for the same crosswalk. He was just standing over his bike and he didn't have a helmet on. I knew that when the walk signal turned green that I would have to pick a side to walk past the guy. I had an iced coffee drink in my left hand and both dogs on leash in my right hand, so I proceed to walk to the right of him when the time came. As he approached me there was a split second when we picked our paths. Then, he got closer and said "get your F**D Up dogs out of my way". I had a hat and sunglasses on, so as I stared at him as he passed to my left, he couldn't tell that I was giving him a glaring look. I didn't say anything, as I didn't want to provoke a troll, but he then said "what, you want to test me?". I just kept walking and he proceeded on the other way without incident.

However, the whole thing got me thinking about what could have happened. I was in a tough spot. If he had done anything, it would have been hard for me to defend myself in that moment, given that I had the dogs in hand in the middle of a busy intersection. My dogs were well behaved and didn't lunge at the guy or bark or anything. If they guy had tried something I would not have wanted the dogs to be involved nor would I be able to just let go of them. I have a fair amount of self-defense training and am an intermediate bjj practitioner, but this guy looked like a mean tweaker and I don't know what he would have done or would be capable of. My question is, what would you do in this type of situation if the guy was more aggressive? Should I be carrying peppers spray? Something else?

thanks in advance for your advice.



Submitted January 09, 2025 at 04:59PM by Dizzy-Mixture422 https://ift.tt/K1BLRTk

Tuesday, January 7, 2025

Fight application of TaiChi/KungFu sticky hands

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9kDhkslEgGk

Submitted January 08, 2025 at 02:00AM by Sensitive-Comb62 https://ift.tt/M5BcNID

Anyone with more qualifications willing to poke holes into this dude

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/yfpcZ7ruVHE

Submitted January 07, 2025 at 03:03PM by Lyca0n https://ift.tt/TaDlfG0

Monday, January 6, 2025

Why the Snatch Single Leg is the Best Takedown for Self-Defense

https://ift.tt/8kDTVnx

Submitted January 07, 2025 at 12:31AM by picklethegrappler https://ift.tt/4nrf3xu

Preparing for self defense without martials arts gym access!!



Submitted January 06, 2025 at 06:13PM by picklethegrappler https://ift.tt/F6R3nfz

Self Defense classes

Anyone know of any self defense classes in Pittsburgh PA? My mom grandma and I would like to take some classes together. They would need to accept teenagers.



Submitted January 06, 2025 at 05:18PM by Zestyclose_Belt_3860 https://ift.tt/MkyDCEQ

Worried something on the back of my car could make me a target

And i don't know what it is, there's literally nothing on the back of it, no stickers, it's stock, no private plate, but people keep looking at the back of it and one person even photographed it, only happens when it's parked, are people casing my car to steal? or could the car be making me a target? if so how do i protect myself?



Submitted January 06, 2025 at 12:42PM by NoCommunication7 https://ift.tt/o8slBqt

Saturday, January 4, 2025

Story time: an asshole at the club punched my sister

and Pushed her down the stairs. Luckily she just has a concussion but it was really scary.

I'm small, a little over 5 feet and weight 110lbs. I did taekwondo and kenpo competitively for 10 years and have a second degree black belt. Though I haven't practiced in 15 years it came back when I needed it.

I could not intervene soon enough to prevent the assault but I did teach him a lesson. He was a big dude in his early 20s, over 6 feet tall and probably twice my weight.

Before I knew what I was doing, I kicked him in the groin, punched the nose, hooked behind his knee with my foot to bring him down so that I could grab his head and slam it into my knee.

His friend came up behind me. I felt him grab me. I elbowed him hard in the sternum then grabbed the arm he grabbed me with and rolled him over my shoulder and ontop of the first guy that was still on the ground. I jumped on top and pinned the second guy but the neck and used their combined weight to keep them down.

By the time emergency responders were on the scene all I had was a muscle strain in my back and neck. I needed to stretch and ice and take ibuprofen but no real damage.

Adrenaline is a hell of a drug, and muscle memory is amazing. I was lucky no one used a weapon.



Submitted January 04, 2025 at 06:34PM by Sriracha11235 https://ift.tt/iWXv2o0

Thoughts on this GOAEO?

https://ift.tt/nUEHZIO

Submitted January 04, 2025 at 12:23PM by Heavy_Testament https://ift.tt/VfjTcwd

Friday, January 3, 2025

I think I’m going to have a fight.

I’ve never had a fight in my life. I’m a 15M but I’ve done a few boxing lessons in my time. But stopped going. The guys a bit shorter than me but can fight well. sorta just looking for some tips. I could never hit someone in the face but can throw them around or maybe even hit them in the stomach.



Submitted January 03, 2025 at 11:04PM by Silly_Edge4405 https://ift.tt/WcGBoqm

Krudo SNAG - Self Defense?

https://ift.tt/UF9hYfC

Submitted January 03, 2025 at 09:07PM by Clueless-007 https://ift.tt/VFPWAwX

how should i defend myself in case this happens ?

hey y’all! idek if this is the right subreddit but i need help fr 😭.

i don’t feel like explaining the full context, so i’ll link a post that links to other posts:

https://www.reddit.com/r/Advice/s/PE3cKQnJTo

it’s been a lot of drama that has died down, but if it continues it might end up getting physical. i’ve walked past the group - that my ex bsf turned against me - at school many times and essentially they’re all bark-but-no-bite. they haven’t made any threats to me nor have they done anything physically to me, yet.

the people that hate me usually frequent at the mall. i love going to the mall. a girl in my neighborhood is one of the people who hates me (my ex bsf turned her against me) and is friends w others that hate me. me, my sister, her, and her cousin (who is besties w my sister) we all take the same bus as well.

in case she or anybody in that group TRIES to do something to me at school, how should i defend myself ? how do i defend myself in public ?



Submitted January 03, 2025 at 08:13PM by Alternative-Cat9174 https://ift.tt/UozZmPT

Wednesday, January 1, 2025

Laser dry fire training ?

I'm Trying to go to the range everyweek but sometime i just can't.

Can a weekly dry firing training sessions with a laser set up (strikeman or Mantis) be a could replacement ?

Like every single week i train dry fire/laser and i go to the real range as much as can (2-3 time month)

Thanks.



Submitted January 01, 2025 at 04:21AM by BigDre762 https://ift.tt/an09CpR